Hello, ENFP here.
I can't speak for all ENFPs, but I just want to tell you what I've noticed. I find that INTJs are very easy for me to talk to and connect with, whereas, while I have been attracted to an INTP before, I find them a bit intimidating.
I feel very relaxed around INTJs and one of my best friends is an INTJ. If I try hard enough, I believe can get close to INTPs as well, but its scary at first.
I've walked up to INTPs before only to have them look at me funny and walk away before I can even start talking. I know that doesn't apply to all INTPs, because I've also met a very nice and polite INTP.
But for some reason I just feel incredibly at ease with ENFPs, ENTPs, INFJs, and INTJs more than any other types.
I do NOT have antipathy towards INTPs though. Not at all. I really like them, but they're just very hard to get to know and hard to talk to. But when I see them on videos on youtube or something, I find them very likable.
I think that
some ENFPs do have antipathy towards INTPs, because INTPs can seem rude or hurtful when they probably just want to be left alone.
Also, I don't try to hold anyone under my 'spell.' I just like people and like making friends, and I want people to like me back. If they don't like me back, then I feel like I failed. And INTPs can be aggravating because they won't stop making me feel like I failed. After all, relationships are what ENFPs do. And if I fail at what I'm best at doing, then I sometimes have the tendency to lose my self-respect. And then I get the tendency to blame the INTP for that, when they didn't actually do anything wrong.
I used to be kind of intimidated by INTJs too. But then I became best friends with an INTJ, and since I now know an INTJ on a personal level, no conversation with INTJs has been anything but comfortable and enjoyable.
I think that if I could get to know just one INTP, then it would be easy to talk to other INTPs as well. That's my goal. I want to feel comfortable when I talk to them.