For the most part I don't blame them. I'd flee somewhere like here if I could if I were them too. Though a lot of them get here and feel like they can relax because we have low numbers, and they go out and handle groceries and travel in large groups. But at the same time plenty of locals do the same, so it's not a specific prejudice against them. It does rub me the wrong way as a conservative though. Suddenly all these city types with a penchant for safety in numbers who don't care at all about and in fact often look down upon rural types suddenly move on in with guilty looks on their faces. Still, like I said- I don't blame them one bit. Either it helps one more person not get infected, or it infects a bunch of people who otherwise wouldn't get infected. Absent control, ethically, I feel like the chance of helping someone not get infected is the right (moral) call.
I can’t speak for the people you’re viewing, because I have no idea. Maybe they are assholes. Quite possibly. We have plenty of those here, too.
One of my old neighbors left for a suburb of Philly, where his in-laws live, because his wife’s job is definitely shut down til the end of April. And they have two young sons that run around a lot. It was either be cooped up in an apt with these boys who want to run around, or be able to have a little more space for that, plus a backyard.
Are my neighbors going around licking products at the supermarket or running up to people and breathing in their faces? Probably not. They’re most likely hunkered down with their in-laws/parents, leading quiet lives. They’re thinking about how to stay sane with their young children. They also plan to move out of the city soon, because the boys are just too active.
All my other old neighbors, as far as I know, are staying in place. Almost all have kids.
NYers are used to going out a lot. Not necessarily just to spend money, but we walk a LOT. Not everyone has the luxury of a car. I’d do my grocery shopping on foot a couple times a week, and I loved it. Well, a lot of ppl do. There are sedentary people, too. I’m just saying that bc a lot of ppl don’t have cars, you get used to moving around. So being cooped up is hard on the brain.
One could say ‘well, you chose that, you deserve it’. Maybe so. You can interpret things however you like.