evilrubberduckie
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SJ's have either ripped me apart entirely, or helped me build myself back together.
Yeah, that's what others tell me as well..
I just wish I could be like them more, I don't know.
Yeah, that's what others tell me as well..
I just wish I could be like them more, I don't know.
Why do you want to be more like them?
Cause they have an easier time with the basic things in life, of course they don't have perfect lives, nobody does, but they don't get lost in a glass of water like I do. They have much more awareness of what's going on around them, sometimes I feel like I'm living half-asleep.
Every time I hang out with my ISTJ sister I feel put in awe by her security and simplicity, she is extremely independent, healthy, practical, she looks and behaves like a super classy lady. And she's 14 but people think she's the older sister (I'm 21) cause she really looks more experienced and mature and I look retarded. (We are physically are almost identical)
I feel a little bit embarrassed cause she sees problems and flaws in what I do all the time and has the tendency to ''try to fix it'' , she is always telling me "Why are you so complicated? things are simpler than that"
[MENTION=1180]whatever[/MENTION] I get that too, a bunch of people say they admire me and want to be like me cause I'm "a cute character" "creative" "unique" ''talented'' but none of that is extremely necessary in life.
I am so goddamn future oriented that had to turn 21 to realized I've been living with my mind in a time that will never come if you don't live the ''present''
I love the INFP uniqueness and creative spirit, it is even awesome if you live daydreaming, I love my type, but when I find it so hard to do the most simple things and realize that I'm living the real life I get upset and a bit depressive.
I fucking hate this thread
I'm an INFJ remember. I'm supposed to know your thoughts, intentions, read you inside and out, like a good encyclopedia except this encyclopedia has footnotes that are amazing with author commentary provided that they are peer reviewed as well. This is completely true and flawless and sound in every way.
There are a few things this could mean, but I really just don't feel like guessing. If you are trying to say that you think you have a certain idea about what you believe my intentions to be, please state them. If you have taken it further and percieve my reasoning for disliking this thread is that the very nature of it seems to automatically assume a level of condescension towards SJ's, and also does so in a seemingly innocous way- while not developing the ideas of the type beyond faux acceptance of the stereotypes commonly misinterpretated to define the entirety of the type- -and that your post demonstrates an understanding that types cannot be defined by these stereotypes, then this conversation can end here.
But if it was just a suggestion that I was out to make trouble, then I think it would be fun to go further.
It was very heavy burdening sarcasm lol. I honestly really don't. But let me guess, could it be is that you're ironically an SJ who hates their own thread? Because possibly SJ's are viewed in a negative light? OR you were sarcastic also and wanted to cause trouble?
I was very much not sarcastic. I legitimately hate this thread. It is an attempt at self aggrandizement by pretending to compliment qualities in others, but the same 2 dimensional qualities that iif recieved by the same person would be taken as insults.
Hmm. Being level-headed, able to get work done, support your community...
I can't see it being an insult if someone told me all 3 of those things.
but at the end of the day no one wants to be an SJ. )
Agreed. This thread doesn't feel right at all. We also need to include the reasons why SJs suck.
I don't recall you being overly overjoyed when I suggested that you might be an ISFJ. Everyone pretends to be openly accepting of the equal value of all types, but at the end of the day no one wants to be an SJ. It is what it is. They distance themselves from the notion that they might be one by propogating these stereotypes, paying their dues by pretending to acknowledge the 'strengths' of these types, but doing so in a way that frequently is used as a way to contrast their self developed personas against those characteristics.
Oh I Loves Me some ISTJ's they are such hard workers(mindless drones that I am not), such loyal friends(again), who can put up with all my wild creative energy that I just can't contain(Look guys I am NOT an SJ- I am nothing like them at all, though I myself DON't - and you can't say that I have anything agaisnt them cus look I gaves them the compliments... I'm an NP, not a boring uncreative SJ. But now it is a win win.)