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- May 30, 2017
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
I typed as IXFP and certain traits suit me well , but I can relate to almost every type.
I'm not super organized, with like desk work and things like that (the outer world items) but I like to have closure about deadlines and stuff like that. Going with the flow too much makes me feel anxious. I think about my future a lot and I always try and plan what i'm going to do days, months, and years from now.
I am very in touch with my own emotions and beliefs, (Fi) But at the same time, I care more about helping other people with their problems rather than my own. One of the most important things to me is honesty, it's one of my values (Is that Fi? ) But I concentrate more on being a shoulder for people I care about, one of the most important things to me is making sure they are safe, and happy. I feel like it's a personal responsibility to help people with their problems.
One thing that's really making me question my Fi VS Fe, is that Fi-doms are supposedly less outwardly expressive of their feelings through verbal communication. While I was like that in an unhealthy state, I am the kind of person overall who naturally wears my heart on my sleeve. I want people to know exactly how I feel and think, and i'm not afraid to express that to the world. I'm not shy about expressing how I feel, unless the situation really doesn't call for it
But on the flip side, I don't try to fit in anywhere. I suppose I do try to agree with people to get along sometimes, but I would never fake who I was or act insincere. I'm not looking for approval from everyone, although I do need it constantly from people i'm close too..
I'm not super organized, with like desk work and things like that (the outer world items) but I like to have closure about deadlines and stuff like that. Going with the flow too much makes me feel anxious. I think about my future a lot and I always try and plan what i'm going to do days, months, and years from now.
I am very in touch with my own emotions and beliefs, (Fi) But at the same time, I care more about helping other people with their problems rather than my own. One of the most important things to me is honesty, it's one of my values (Is that Fi? ) But I concentrate more on being a shoulder for people I care about, one of the most important things to me is making sure they are safe, and happy. I feel like it's a personal responsibility to help people with their problems.
One thing that's really making me question my Fi VS Fe, is that Fi-doms are supposedly less outwardly expressive of their feelings through verbal communication. While I was like that in an unhealthy state, I am the kind of person overall who naturally wears my heart on my sleeve. I want people to know exactly how I feel and think, and i'm not afraid to express that to the world. I'm not shy about expressing how I feel, unless the situation really doesn't call for it
But on the flip side, I don't try to fit in anywhere. I suppose I do try to agree with people to get along sometimes, but I would never fake who I was or act insincere. I'm not looking for approval from everyone, although I do need it constantly from people i'm close too..