Sexual 7s are probably the most "virginal" of all the points.
I agree very much that people tend to misunderstand the sexual instinct. I'm curious to know where you're going with the above, though, would you mind fleshing it out a bit more?
For myself, the sx-dom instinct is less romantic/sexual in the way that many might define it; it's more descriptive of my energy, my tendency to react with intensity in everything that I do. For example, I don't simply have hobbies or interests - I feel like I psychologically
fuse with them, sort of becoming them, making them as prominent in my life as I can. Without whatever currently drives me, I would feel empty and bored, given to subconsciously pursuing
something to provide that fuel. I would feel anxious without these things in my life, and so I believe that I need them. I rarely like as much as I love.
Fortunately, I love a lot of things, and consequently am very...active and passionate because of this. Over time it might seem like my identity is fluid, since I can and have replaced one intense interest with another almost casually, but it doesn't feel like that. I just get really,
really into whatever it is that I get into. It's a dominating force in my life.
When I take the tests, it says I'm a 7w8...which makes way more sense to me than the w6, but I admit I haven't spent nearly as much time reading into the wing as I have in the instinctual stackings.
For whatever it's worth, I also score as a 7w8 on online tests. I had a lot of wing confusion (sometimes, I still do) because an Eight can seem like a counterphobic Six and vice versa. I even wondered if it was possible to have balanced wings, or be wingless.
After a lot of reading, I was inclined to choose 7w6 based on (among other things) having a more cerebral energy, possessing that buried anxiety that goes straight to my head whenever I slow down enough to let it creep into consciousness. I have racing thoughts, high energy, and sleep fairly little. I've been diagnosed with hypomanic episodes before (it's not a big deal), and while all of that feels very Seven, it also feels very
mental. Fear is the stuff I'm made of, the stuff I spend my life forgetting; rage is not. A counterphobic wing could account for any aggressive tendencies that I have, as I at least understand the desire to confront one's fears if they can't be ignored. Be strong and smooth under pressure, etc.
When it comes to general descriptions of type Six, there's honestly not much that I relate to. I get the anxiety, but the ways in which I deal with it are very different. I think it helps that my boyfriend is a 7w8, to help me
feel the difference in person. I have the more playful "entertainer" energy often attached to 7w6, whereas he's got a slightly more grounded, aggressive, "entrepreneurial" edge to him. It's really neat to see.
I haven't yet ruled out the possibility of Eight being the dominant force in my gut/anger triad, but it would be last in the tritype stacking overall.
Anyway, I wouldn't be surprised if you continue to feel a lot of uncertainty there for quite a while. Just do as much reading as you can; online tests will only get you so far.