ceecee
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- Joined
- Apr 22, 2008
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- Enneagram
- 8w9
There are people who can't bear any criticism, and react with "I never do anything right, do I?!?" when presented with a single piece of feedback about how they could do better. The tiniest straw will break the back every single time, and they think the person adding the straw is the one doing it. It's one of the most exhausting human behaviors I can think of. (Because it's rarely intentionally malicious - they genuinely feel like the victim, unaware of their self-centeredness - so it merits *some* understanding ...but it's a daunting tendency to work around).
Right. They don't want to hear anything further, they want to dismiss it as quickly as possible and they want YOU (collectively) to stop talking about it. The actual problem is not the problem. YOU talking about it, is the problem.
And in light of the recent events of that misogynist racist cunt of a white male and the 8 people he killed, mostly Asian women - A reminder you can absolutely be racist towards people you want to have sex with and having sex with people of a different race does not automatically negate your racism towards them.