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For me its rolling around words. Like repetitive rambling. No real path, it just goes wherever it goes. Its conceptual, nothing sensory. Thats my external function. When i write its given better direction, but i still fine tune as i go for clarity and go back over the same thoughts for clarity.
My sensory side is a method of pulling data in, lots of data. Would overwhelm to analyze it all to a deep degree.
You seem to want to Ni. You should. You should very much Ni.![]()
I find that it's really useful to look at the types who have a function as tertiary, because it helps one better understand how the function also might work in the primary. This is part and parcel of the overall observation/pseudo-theory that each type sorta-kinda has an "inner type" based on the tertiary and inferior, hence INTJs have an "inner ISFP", ESTJs have an "inner ENFP", ISTPs have an "inner INFJ" and so on. When you see how the functions work in tertiary, their "inexpert" application helps to really define what characterizes that particular cognitive pattern of thought.
Why? Because it's much easier to spot types in terms of what they tend to do wrong, not what they tend to do right. So you're going to understand Fi, perhaps, a little better when you see how IxTJs use and describe it. Not that they use/describe it aptly, but that's the point. You end up seeing the process more easily, because it isn't nearly so adept as coping as when it is dominant. A dominant process generally copes very well, and having adapted to the real world, it is often difficult to distinguish because the person using it has learned to translate/communicate well.
Here's a personal example of mine, from back in the old days (has it really been that long?!): http://www.typologycentral.com/foru...ctions/30086-uumlau-answers-questions-fi.html
That's Fi as I understood it back then. [MENTION=5999]PeaceBaby[/MENTION] has helped me refine my understanding of Fi, even as I've helped her refine her understanding of Ni. But as a broad brush, especially for other TJs, it's a good start for understanding what is/isn't Fi, even if it's kind of inept on my part.
So I find it fascinating watching [MENTION=12103]Poki[/MENTION] describe Ni. I don't think he's wrong about it - in fact I think he helps extend my understanding of it. This is beautiful and aptly put: "For me its rolling around words. Like repetitive rambling. No real path, it just goes wherever it goes. Its conceptual, nothing sensory." I know exactly what he's talking about, but he's saying it differently than I would, because it's not his dominant process. With Ti being dominant, he sees a different part of it than I do. He sees how it has no path, how it's like watching your thoughts without actively participating. Now imagine if "watching your thoughts without actively participating" were your primary mode of thinking. That's more or less how Ni feels, and being from an ISTP, a fellow Ti dom, this might be the most apt description for [MENTION=13589]Mal12345[/MENTION], describing Ni in terms of Ti.
And here is another personal example. I remember one time I was listening to a speaker describe her experiences with meditation, how it felt, what was difficult, what was easy, and how it should work. What she described as "meditation" was exactly how I always think. Her description was very much like Poki's description of Ni, watching your thoughts without participating. But what puzzled me was how she indicated that it was so difficult to achieve, that she'd get distracted or fall asleep or whatever. But Ni types don't fall asleep or get distracted - or rather, we don't consider it to be "sleep" or "distraction", but we're definitely not directing, not in control.
The Compleat Idiot’s Guide to the INTJ | INTJ Central
This has a great description of how INTJs think:
We live inside our heads.
We frequently zone out. We get lost in thought and spend much of our time inside our heads. If our immediate reality becomes boring, we will retreat into our minds, and you might have to shout our names repeatedly to get our attention so we will come out again. And no, sorry, but you can’t come into our heads with us. You wouldn’t last five minutes there. You’d be driven insane by the nonstop cacophony of overlapping voices madly free-associating from one idea to the next.
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Q: Why doesn’t my INTJ ever show emotions or feelings?
A: Because he doesn’t have any. Actually, that’s not strictly true; it’s just that we tend to get emotional about things you might not appreciate. INTJs have been known to cry during the liftoff scene in “Apollo 13â€, for example, and there are also many touching moments in some of the Star Trek movies. An INTJ may also smile or laugh at random for no apparent reason; probably one of the voices in his head just made a good joke.
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Q: My INTJ keeps disappearing. Is this normal?
A: Yes. We need our “alone time†to recharge, more so than any of the other introverted MBTI types. Being around people for very long sucks the life force out of us, and we sneak off to be by ourselves whenever our “low battery†warning light starts to flash. (And in those cases where we can’t disappear physically, we will retreat into our minds.) Consequently we have great stealth capability; we can sit in a corner, observing while being unobserved, and we can escape, unnoticed, when we’re ready to move on.
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Q: Why can’t my INTJ remember anything?
A: This is normal. Most of us INTJs are very forgetful. We have too much going on in our heads at any time to remember a lot of new stuff. Also, we zone out and go into autopilot mode quite frequently. We often won’t remember where we put our car keys because we weren’t “there†when we did it.
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Q: Why does my INTJ just “shut down†at the end of the day?
A: Our minds are always buzzing with plans and theories, and we cannot voluntarily get it to stop. But even an Indy 500 car will coast to a halt after it runs out of gas. When we are very tired our brains slow down, and we become normal or even a bit retarded. If we start asking you to repeat what you just told us but more slowly this time, and/or if we can no longer perform simple routine tasks like computing an orbital transfer burn or finding a memory leak in 10,000 lines of C++ code, you know it’s time for us to call it a day.
Seriously, a lot of the time what we do isn't "thinking", it's more like "watching movies" of what-if scenarios. When we turn our minds to the real world, those what-if scenarios play out pretty quickly and result in problem-solving. The rest of the time, it's aimed at trivia such as, "Why don't I have a girlfriend yet?"

So how's that for descriptions, Mal?