This is a really serious problem, I've never heard of this happening to a younger person.. My mother had these issues show up when her muscle condition was at its worst, but her situation is different.
I hope it turns out to be the medicine, and I hope changing prescriptions helps. To be honest, I've never heard of people having trouble telling their moms about clinical stuff.. Its almost a relief when it is something doctor or clinical related. Its easy to talk about that.. what isn't so easy is talking about stuff like her wanting me to have a baby, or our different views on marriage.
A doctor won't be able to tell you what is wrong.. General practitioners are gateways to specialists. They weed out the obvious funk, and try to guide people to the specialists they need.
Only a specialist will be able to help you, and in this case, I think a urologist is your best bet. You should NOT have any sort of bowel or bladder difficulties at your age. I understand it is embarrassing and scary, but you will not be able to function in your own daily life without the help of the urologist. Make the appointment, get past the scary part of getting there, and I am sure the specialist will make you feel better.. You can definitely tell him or her that you are nervous and scared about this, they will understand.
This is a really serious condition. This is not a normal thing, nor is it something that should be taken lightly. I am surprised you have waited this long.. I'd have made an appointment at day 2.
Be sure you let them know any and all medications you take as well. If you are no good at pronouncing them, bring them with you so they can know for sure.
I'm stubborn
the reason why i've waited so long, is it starts and stops, and whenever it stops i think i'm fine than out of nowhere my bladder empties it self