Frist post here, so here we go !
Section A: The Basics
If you had an entire day to do whatever you wanted, how would you spend it?
Do you mean a classical day off ? Or a day I can really do whatever I want that is not currently possible? (Time, money, etc).
Anyhow, I would say : paragliding or jumping of a plane.
The best would be to go climbing with my friend. I started climbing indoor a few month ago and I made many friends there but so far I've never got the chance to climb outdoor with them.
Describe your ideal day/night in.
With my familly, eating good food, enjoying my sister craziness and my father's passion in whatever he's doing (plane, programming, music (piano or something else), crosswords, etc). Ow and I would cook something. We would play board games and laugh.
Describe your ideal day/night out.
I would say skiing with friends or familly. I love the fun you can get by skiing fast, the shared memories about it, being in a group. That's also trigger a lot of very very good memories when I was younger. The snow crunching, this particular feeling when it's cold and the sky is blue. The end of the day when you're drain out and you enjoy a fondue savoyarde.
List five things you like about yourself.
I like how I connect things in my head. I don't really know how to explain, but I feel that I deal with a lot of information quickly and understand it quickly and know what to do with it. It's like I have a big theory and every piece of information must fit in it ortherwise I have to redefine my theory. With time, I get more and more acurate but also more flexible.
I like the way I can be really childish.
I like the joy I get get from simple thing.
I like being efficent.
I like my seek of being a better person.
List five things you dislike about yourself.
My lazyness. My lack of organization. Being sometimes just clueless about others feeling. On that topic, I feel that I've learned a lot and use my brain to be friendly and I'm quite good at it. I have no shame to talk to people I don't know (wasn't the case when I was younger). And actually, I do that a lot. I feel that we lack social link (idk if that make sense in English...) with others, I want to be part of those who fight against this so I've learn to open up. But it must also linked to me being annoyed things doesn't go as I want things to be. I don't like akwardness so if I have to, I do what it must be done so that everyone (including me) has fun. But if I can do less, I let that to others.
How have others described you? (Please only use examples from people you have a neutral-positive relationship with, whether criticisms or compliments. Criticisms from people who dislike us and compliments from people who are infatuated with us tend not to hold much truth.)
I'm not very aware of what others thinks of me as I care not that much. But I remember one girl who was really different from me saying that I seems very snob. I worked on that since.
I have a recent friend saying that I'm very calm, soothing, reassuring because I was able to plan the day but at the same time being fleible and reorganizing the day on the go each time it was needed. I don't feel that laid back. Maybe that's something I've learn idk.
What do you consider your skills?
Smart, can handle crisis, logical.
What motivates you?
I like things that have a purpose. I work in IT BUT in a hospital. First I wanted to be a physician. I could not work for banks. I work for a non profit organization for climate change and we do some non violent action.
Section B: Digging Deeper
What is your general outlook on life/the world?
As occidental we denied other views on life as non rational but there were some truth in it and somewhat helped in a purpose and I see that today we lack of what those old views gave us. So never judge what someone believes, there some reason to that that you cannot understand. And respect. It's not because you don't understand that it's not usefull. As long as it works...
I feel quite pessimitic but I believe that everything is possible if we really want to and I know that what I believe and what everyone believes shape the world so as I want a better world, I try to be optimistic. I also know that we dismiss too easily what is good to focus on the bad. The good is everywhere, where someone holds the door for you. I believe that I have an impact (small tho) on others and that matter so that why I try to be kind to others. I'm helped with my ability to see the good in everyone.
Do you believe you have a purpose in life? If so, what is it?
I talked about it in the previous question !
How do you typically bond with other people? (i.e. slowly or quickly, through what type of activities, etc.)
aah tought question. I can bond quite quickly but the trick is on the long run. I'm not the best to keep friendship. I can remain silent for long and as I child I wasn't mature enough to ask the mail address of a friend who was leaving the country to keep in touch. I was so sad to lost that friendship. That's why I have not many friend that I would say that are very close, and even then, we're not in touch that often. When I was younger I was often isolated bcause I could not fit in the group, I could not understand the group dynamic and was perceived weird. I felt very lonely apart from the school from 6 to 10 years old where I had the same classmate during those years and we were in a very protective environnement. So friendships are really not easy for me and I really have to control myslef to make those happening.
What do you find yourself thinking about most frequently?
what to do next, how to improve this or that.
What are you most afraid of?
Being alone
What traits do you admire in others?
Smartness but recently what we call emotional intelligence (which I lack)
What traits annoy you in others?
Not being smart and not compensate it in others ways. I enjoy people who aren't smart as long as they bring something valuable : it's often on the social skills level that they're usefull.
What was your childhood like?
I was good at school. I really enjoyed class. Not easy at all with others.
What do you want most for yourself?
Hapiness
What do you want most for others?
Hapiness
Section C: Interests and Values
What are your favorite things to talk about?
Healthcare systems ? I don't know that's the first thing that came out of my mind (that the current topic I could talk to anyone who show a little interest on it). The cultural differences between countries, how everything can be seen differently, how the world works.
What are the five most important things to you?
My familly. Democracy (we're gonna loose it folks!). Health (I'm loosing it). Food (thank god we have plenty). Hug (everyone doesn't have enough, the world would be better with hugs)
What do you think the world needs more of?
Hugs as I just say. Love basically. Not being afraid of change. That everyone takes part in what he wants to fight against. A massive and mortal plague.
What do you think the world needs less of?
Humans. Luxury. Money.
What is your favorite quote? What significance does it hold for you and why?
The whole movie holy grail. I like absurd, it holds some truth.
Section A: The Basics
If you had an entire day to do whatever you wanted, how would you spend it?
Do you mean a classical day off ? Or a day I can really do whatever I want that is not currently possible? (Time, money, etc).
Anyhow, I would say : paragliding or jumping of a plane.
The best would be to go climbing with my friend. I started climbing indoor a few month ago and I made many friends there but so far I've never got the chance to climb outdoor with them.
Describe your ideal day/night in.
With my familly, eating good food, enjoying my sister craziness and my father's passion in whatever he's doing (plane, programming, music (piano or something else), crosswords, etc). Ow and I would cook something. We would play board games and laugh.
Describe your ideal day/night out.
I would say skiing with friends or familly. I love the fun you can get by skiing fast, the shared memories about it, being in a group. That's also trigger a lot of very very good memories when I was younger. The snow crunching, this particular feeling when it's cold and the sky is blue. The end of the day when you're drain out and you enjoy a fondue savoyarde.
List five things you like about yourself.
I like how I connect things in my head. I don't really know how to explain, but I feel that I deal with a lot of information quickly and understand it quickly and know what to do with it. It's like I have a big theory and every piece of information must fit in it ortherwise I have to redefine my theory. With time, I get more and more acurate but also more flexible.
I like the way I can be really childish.
I like the joy I get get from simple thing.
I like being efficent.
I like my seek of being a better person.
List five things you dislike about yourself.
My lazyness. My lack of organization. Being sometimes just clueless about others feeling. On that topic, I feel that I've learned a lot and use my brain to be friendly and I'm quite good at it. I have no shame to talk to people I don't know (wasn't the case when I was younger). And actually, I do that a lot. I feel that we lack social link (idk if that make sense in English...) with others, I want to be part of those who fight against this so I've learn to open up. But it must also linked to me being annoyed things doesn't go as I want things to be. I don't like akwardness so if I have to, I do what it must be done so that everyone (including me) has fun. But if I can do less, I let that to others.
How have others described you? (Please only use examples from people you have a neutral-positive relationship with, whether criticisms or compliments. Criticisms from people who dislike us and compliments from people who are infatuated with us tend not to hold much truth.)
I'm not very aware of what others thinks of me as I care not that much. But I remember one girl who was really different from me saying that I seems very snob. I worked on that since.
I have a recent friend saying that I'm very calm, soothing, reassuring because I was able to plan the day but at the same time being fleible and reorganizing the day on the go each time it was needed. I don't feel that laid back. Maybe that's something I've learn idk.
What do you consider your skills?
Smart, can handle crisis, logical.
What motivates you?
I like things that have a purpose. I work in IT BUT in a hospital. First I wanted to be a physician. I could not work for banks. I work for a non profit organization for climate change and we do some non violent action.
Section B: Digging Deeper
What is your general outlook on life/the world?
As occidental we denied other views on life as non rational but there were some truth in it and somewhat helped in a purpose and I see that today we lack of what those old views gave us. So never judge what someone believes, there some reason to that that you cannot understand. And respect. It's not because you don't understand that it's not usefull. As long as it works...
I feel quite pessimitic but I believe that everything is possible if we really want to and I know that what I believe and what everyone believes shape the world so as I want a better world, I try to be optimistic. I also know that we dismiss too easily what is good to focus on the bad. The good is everywhere, where someone holds the door for you. I believe that I have an impact (small tho) on others and that matter so that why I try to be kind to others. I'm helped with my ability to see the good in everyone.
Do you believe you have a purpose in life? If so, what is it?
I talked about it in the previous question !
How do you typically bond with other people? (i.e. slowly or quickly, through what type of activities, etc.)
aah tought question. I can bond quite quickly but the trick is on the long run. I'm not the best to keep friendship. I can remain silent for long and as I child I wasn't mature enough to ask the mail address of a friend who was leaving the country to keep in touch. I was so sad to lost that friendship. That's why I have not many friend that I would say that are very close, and even then, we're not in touch that often. When I was younger I was often isolated bcause I could not fit in the group, I could not understand the group dynamic and was perceived weird. I felt very lonely apart from the school from 6 to 10 years old where I had the same classmate during those years and we were in a very protective environnement. So friendships are really not easy for me and I really have to control myslef to make those happening.
What do you find yourself thinking about most frequently?
what to do next, how to improve this or that.
What are you most afraid of?
Being alone
What traits do you admire in others?
Smartness but recently what we call emotional intelligence (which I lack)
What traits annoy you in others?
Not being smart and not compensate it in others ways. I enjoy people who aren't smart as long as they bring something valuable : it's often on the social skills level that they're usefull.
What was your childhood like?
I was good at school. I really enjoyed class. Not easy at all with others.
What do you want most for yourself?
Hapiness
What do you want most for others?
Hapiness
Section C: Interests and Values
What are your favorite things to talk about?
Healthcare systems ? I don't know that's the first thing that came out of my mind (that the current topic I could talk to anyone who show a little interest on it). The cultural differences between countries, how everything can be seen differently, how the world works.
What are the five most important things to you?
My familly. Democracy (we're gonna loose it folks!). Health (I'm loosing it). Food (thank god we have plenty). Hug (everyone doesn't have enough, the world would be better with hugs)
What do you think the world needs more of?
Hugs as I just say. Love basically. Not being afraid of change. That everyone takes part in what he wants to fight against. A massive and mortal plague.
What do you think the world needs less of?
Humans. Luxury. Money.
What is your favorite quote? What significance does it hold for you and why?
The whole movie holy grail. I like absurd, it holds some truth.
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.Id also love to spend time on reading books and doing relaxing activities. 
