I did not say anything about her mother, fetus.
Oh, oh yes you did. It's all there for all of us to read. If you can't see that then you truly are blinded by your own ignorance.
As much as i'd like to spar with you, fetus, i am afraid i cannot for fear of infractions.
It used to be possible for me to debate and argue things out here, but these days it is easier to get a fair call at a college football game than it is for me to get fair treatment on type c (compared to the favs)
Well guess what, I
am going to spar with you. Whether or not you want to reply is your business, but your reluctance here isn't going to stop me from speaking my mind, particularly because Ivy is my friend I am not going to sit back here and watch you ignorantly bop her over the head for no goddamn reason. It's unfortunate that your post couldn't be infracted because it didn't actually violate any rules (I could be wrong though), because if I have EVER seen a non-rule breaking post that should be infracted, it would be yours.
What you said to Ivy, is CRUEL. Out and out CRUEL. You lacked ANY sensitivtity to her situation, and instead twisted it all down to
your view of
your faith. Something that no one else on the forum shares in the way you do. Do you have
any idea what she might have gone through in the past few months?
ANY? Clearly not because if you did wouldn't have dared say anything this callous and unsympathetic. What you did was put the death of her mother as her own mothers fault. A death from cancer like this is NO ONES fault. Maybe you could blame chemical exposure if it were directly done and proven to be the case. Oh no, you put the blame of death on the dying person. Do you have ANY idea how demoralizing, dehumanizing, insensitive, narrow sighted, and I'll say it again, CRUEL that is?
This isn't even a matter of debate, what you said is and was objectively cruel. You minimized someones loved ones death, and put the blame of it on them, and made them feel guilty in the process. This is just wrong. COMPLETELY wrong, and it is absolutely MIND BLOWING that you can't even begin to fathom that. You said in the past you left because you got "bashed" a lot. Yep, because you say fucking horrible stuff like this like it's no big deal.
You get what you give.
I'm sorry, Ivy, if I hurt your feelings about your mother.
Yeah right. It's going to take A LOT more than a "sorry" to undo this one. If at all.