elfboy, i don't think you're going to know your Sx's stacking location until you've being through some relationships (serious enough to found out what happens when SX clashes with the other two), and i am inclined to think you haven't, since, well, didn't you just find out you where gay, or something like that? and i didnt get the impression you where lucky enough to find out about it in the "huh its being several years and i am practically married to someone of my own gender" kind of way...
sx/sp's tend to make their points more aggressively when they feel misunderstood, whereas sp/sx's are more likely to resort to sarcasm.what was Sx dom-ish about my last post? lol
sx/sp's tend to make their points more aggressively when they feel misunderstood, whereas sp/sx's are more likely to resort to sarcasm.
Sp/sx's make the best smartasses.
Yes! Nice breakdown. It's not something black and white though.so essentially
Sx/Sp: fiery
Sp/Sx: dry
I could definitely see that being an indirect correlation
Yes! Nice breakdown. It's not something black and white though.
- lol, definitely not. I've known I was gay for nearly 10 years (I found out when I was 12)
- yes, I'm (more than) a bit inexperienced in the relationships department, but I don't think that's necessary to tell where my Sx stacking is.
the responses in this thread are surprising so far
in case this helps. here are two videos of me
I've known since I was 12, accepted it since I was 17 and now at 21 I'm deciding to embrace it (meaning, I'm tired to denying myself/thinking that a relationship is impossible because it isn't, I just need to put myself out there. still, I have no intention of being a femme, that isn't my style lol)i always find this terminology confusing... ok, i didn't mean "find out" in that sense as much as i meant "acknowledged", "recognized", "reconciled with your identity", "came open with" (even if not being out of the closet in RL)... basically yea, that. wasn't there something about that, about you saying you trying to come to terms with being gay but aren't happy about it? perhaps i am confusing it with you coming out to the open specifically to this community and merely expressing your feelings at the time...
this is probably be true of me as well (even in the last few weeks, I've changed a lot)possibly, personally i doubt my SX would have tested as high before i got to explore those areas within me through life...
You are confident that you are social last?
As an SP-dom, I've notice myself obsessed with well being. When I was younger I was an incredibly picky eater, and certain textures, color, or smell would turn me off instantly. I actually went hungry a lot because of this. I've come a long way, but still...
There's also this weird preoccupation and sensitivity with the mood of my environment (ie: my room, workplace, etc.) that I can't really describe. All of this sounds really unmanly, but thank goodness this is teh internetz and no one IRL (save family) has to know
If we keep it simple, which one are you more preoccupied with (to the point where it may seem neurotic at times)?
SP-dom = desires for Well Being (ie: financial security, physical comfort, etc.)
SX-dom = desires for Pair Bonding (ie: merging, wholeness, etc.)
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin/content.php/199-Instinct-Variant-Summary-Table-And-Videos
I've described/experienced similar feelings on several occasionsAs an SP-dom, I've notice myself obsessed with well being. When I was younger I was an incredibly picky eater, and certain textures, color, or smell would turn me off instantly. I actually went hungry a lot because of this. I've come a long way, but still...
There's also this weird preoccupation and sensitivity with the mood of my environment (ie: my room, workplace, etc.) that I can't really describe. All of this sounds really unmanly, but thank goodness this is teh internetz and no one IRL (save family) has to know
I think desire for well being, but, honestly, I'm not sure, the desire for pair bonding has rapidly been moving up my priority list these last few weeks, so I'm going to have to think about that a bit moreIf we keep it simple, which one are you more preoccupied with (to the point where it may seem neurotic at times)?
SP-dom = desires for Well Being (ie: financial security, physical comfort, etc.)
SX-dom = desires for Pair Bonding (ie: merging, wholeness, etc.)
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin/content.php/199-Instinct-Variant-Summary-Table-And-Videos
@<a href="http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/member.php?u=5684" target="_blank">Elfboy</a> did you listen to the music links for sx/sp or sp/sx?
I'm getting the funny feeling that @<a href="http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/member.php?u=5356" target="_blank">Speed Gavroche</a> was potentially right about me...I'm finding the sx/so music more "me" than the sx/sp. Maybe I just like the style more, but it's interesting to me that he suggested that he thought I was either so/sx or sx/so. And I was like, no, that doesn't logically make sense to me. And he's like, yeah ok. And now I'm listening to these songs for sx/so, and it's just interesting that it resonates with me more.