Thank you for explaining. But still shouldn't there be a reason for them to even want to "impress" you? Or it doesn't matter because everyone is improtatnt to impress? Is there a test for this? I want to do it as well.
Well the last time we met he actually pulled me in for a hug when saying goodbye. And our hugs are getting tighter each time.
And he also turns away when something "emotional" happens. I don't know how to explain. For example when laughing hard about something, he turns away because he has tears in his eyes and he's controlling his laughter. Or after I gave him a peck on the cheek to congratulate him on something. I guess he didnt expect it. He immediately turned around but he kept talking and I could hear in his voice that he was smiling. Could it be because he didn't want me to see him smile or blush? There was this other instance where he showed me something and at certain points moved his head around for me to not see his face.
I called him yetsreday and he told me he was happy I called him.
I adressed the problem with him always promising things and not doing them and he told me that yeah he needs to change his ways and get better at it.
He asked about my family (names etc) and told me the names of his siblings randomly.
He asked about what I did over the span of the week and specifically and event I went to. He was like I know you went there. And I was like how? He said I KNOWWW. It was on my fb. He's always checking it!!! Why??
I don't even check my friends facebooks or ask them about everything. And he always does this.
And he always tells me to text him or send something to him etc. He will always find a reason. Feels like he wants me to write to him. I don't get it. Why do that if you're not interested and it's just your working style or whatever the excuse. It honestly feels like an excuse. It's still the same problem why I started this topic. And I told him to call me sometimes as well and he said he will. But I said that I would be surprised since he is always promising but not actually doing it. Why not just say goodbye until the next time? It feels like he want sto keep me hanging... but he's not putting in the same effort. Is it just to boost his ego or is he testing me this way or what on earth?
It's interesting because you actually seem convinced he does like you. Not that I'm necessarily saying "No"...but you won't take my "not necessarily saying No but still..." for an answer. So help me help you...
If he is not gay....
If dating you will not threaten his career...
If he is relatively mentally and emotionally healthy...
If he has good morals, is religious and is perhaps somewhat gender-role-traditional because of it...
And if he is interested in you and knows you do not have a SO...
Why hasn't he asked you out?
I mean, if we were discussing an ENFP female things might be a little different because while we...ourselves...are generally non-traditional and assertive/aggressive...many of us were raised to behave more traditionally. IOW some of us have been taught that the dude should make the first move...
But here we're talking about a dude.
If all of those things are in place...why do you think he hasn't asked you out?