Asterion
Ruler of the Stars
- Joined
- May 6, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- INTP
- Enneagram
- 5
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- sp/sx
I realized lately just how scared I am of feeling in front of other people. That delayed response feels like a huge curse.
The couple of 8s that I know put so much effort into comfort, that they practically don't relax at all, gathering wood for the fireplace, preparing this huge fancy meal, making sure everything is complete before they even sit still. There's a lot of stuff I should probably do like this right now...
That reminds me of this:
"Letting the wolf get close to the door, then opening it and seeing how they react".
I filled the fridge (to a level that transcends the haphazard or immediately required) and updated my medicine cabinet today...it takes energy to look after myself, it really does. The small comforts in life aren't my strong suit.
The couple of 8s that I know put so much effort into comfort, that they practically don't relax at all, gathering wood for the fireplace, preparing this huge fancy meal, making sure everything is complete before they even sit still. There's a lot of stuff I should probably do like this right now...
I spend more time in the world these days, but I treat myself as more of guinea pig still...looking what I can learn from experiences, how I react, how people react, what experiences might generate interesting stuff.
That reminds me of this:
"Letting the wolf get close to the door, then opening it and seeing how they react".