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[MENTION=19979]kikat[/MENTION], what situation notably puts you under a lot of stress?
[MENTION=19979]kikat[/MENTION], what situation notably puts you under a lot of stress?
I have this little typology test...
KITKAT
Do you have a link?
I can identify with the following types. Note: One of them is a feeling type. Shocker!No, I use private message, usually. Which type or types do you identify with most?
You're probably an ESTJ. Or an ISTJ with good Fi.
What does "screams ENFP" sound like?
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So how in hell does it scream ENFP?
You are quite... passionate... about an internet stranger's personality type. She's gone away from ENFP, and I don't have an issue with it, but to answer:
First, there's little insight as to the thought processes behind the contradictions, which made typing based on the OP difficult. Although her last paragraph strongly suggests "P". Other posts suggest a strong Fi element, too.
ENFPs sometimes find themselves "untypeable", and can paint a personality description full of contradictions to prove the point that they are untypeable. This is partly because they are good at looking at the many aspects of their personality. They are the most prone of the extroverts to feel like they must really be introverts. They frequently blurt out things they immediately regret, and can easily be blunt to the point of offense, and not understand how they offended others. Of all the types, they tend to be the most contradictory when it comes to valuing organization and structure, while also being scatter-brained. (In fact, an ENFP on here used to say she had a baby ESTJ trying to get out.) Her desire for control, common with ENFPs btw, could also explain some of the contradictions, such as her desire for things to be neat and orderly in the world while not necessarily being neat and orderly herself.
The original post also had good energy and was charming. Other types besides ENFPs can be charming and have good energy, of course, but that combined with the above made me decide to put ENFP out there.
You are quite... passionate... about an internet stranger's personality type.
ENFPs sometimes find themselves "untypeable", and can paint a personality description full of contradictions to prove the point that they are untypeable. This is partly because they are good at looking at the many aspects of their personality. They are the most prone of the extroverts to feel like they must really be introverts. They frequently blurt out things they immediately regret, and can easily be blunt to the point of offense, and not understand how they offended others. Of all the types, they tend to be the most contradictory when it comes to valuing organization and structure, while also being scatter-brained. Her desire for control, common with ENFPs btw, could also explain some of the contradictions, such as her desire for things to be neat and orderly in the world while not necessarily being neat and orderly herself.
When things are out of my control. I like to have security and to feel safe.
When I'm asked to do something that goes against my morals (which I refuse to do)
When I second guess myself about a decision I made.
When I have discord with someone I love.
When others invade my personal space.
When others tell me what to do.
Rude people
People that have no manners.
When directions or speech aren't clear. It drives me batty!
When babies cry. Really.
Drama queens
I have a hard time letting things go. Thoughts ruminate and my mind never shuts down.
Very interesting indeed. That actually sounds like me, except I've read that ENFP's are 'people persons' (That doesn't sound right? Is that a word/phrase?) . Anyway, I digress...I am not a people person. Also, where does the N fit in? I dislike theories, although I am obsessed with the MBTI. Then again, I have a hard time understanding a lot of it. I prefer concrete, linear information and hate ambiguity.
My first impression is INTJ.
For the E/I and T/F contradictions I saw a possible dynamic between Te and Fi. This accounts for the disinterest in people, but also acting out on moral inclinations.
For the N/S and P/J contradictions there could be dynamics between Ni and Te. Ni is non-linear, individualized, difficult to express, while Te is exacting and specific. Ni is also very non-J like when disembodied from Te or Fe in Ni-doms.
My first impression is INTJ. For the E/I and T/F contradictions I saw a possible dynamic between Te and Fi. This accounts for the disinterest in people, but also acting out on moral inclinations.
For the N/S and P/J contradictions there could be dynamics between Ni and Te. Ni is non-linear, individualized, difficult to express, while Te is exacting and specific. Ni is also very non-J like when disembodied from Te or Fe in Ni-doms.
Disinterest of others is not compatible with Fe. Your sense of inner morals does sound Fi-like.
Also, your application of T is much more like Te than Ti because there is a focus on external facts and a thinking style that is more concrete.
Okay, I definitely think ISTJ now. The reason I'm not saying ESTJ is that they repress Fi and thus is unconscious for them, when clearly it isn't for you. But you are still Te > Fi which is why you hate it when things go out of your control. It also goes well with the E-type 6 and your partner being ISFJ.
The question is, WHY do you generally dislike the idea of being around people, especially since you tend to actually enjoy yourself when you are out there? The contradiction tells us little, but your mindset behind it might be enlightening.
Also, what is it about theories that you dislike? (You acknowledge you are obsessed with MBTI, which is in itself a theory.) Your mindset behind it may once again provide insight and tell us if we can assume you are probably S vs N.
I like INTJ.
The interaction of Te and Fi is a common theme in her posts. I can't see INTP or INFJ, although an INTJ can easily score as either depending on the test/mood. ISTJs tend to be more grounded in the real world than her posts claim.