Actually the love languages is what makes you feel more loved?
Acts of service: cleaning the house, taking care of the kids, ect. does this make you feel like your mate truely cares about you?
Physical touch: is NOT sex. alot of people missinterpret that. so many males choose this. but really its how you touch someone. Does cuddling make you feel loved by your mate. holding hands...having your feet rubbed [if thats one lol]
Words of affrimation: having sweet nothings whispered into your ear, being told that you have an amazing sence of right and wrong, having someone write out a letter as to why the like/appreciate you. its not selfishness, its the way some people know/feel they're loved.
Gifts: do you tend to keep gifts that people give to you-even if its a little rock that your little kid brother gave to you 4 years ago? maybe that set of earrings you've wanted? people tend to feel loved by these because its a 'sign' of love to them. They can remember that day because of the gift they recieved.
Time together: this means taking a walk together, watching a movie, talking, anything that involves you and your mate spending time together. this results in the person feeling like you care about them so much that you'd take the time out of your day to just be with them.
All in all, your love language is what makes you feel more appreciated and loved. Everybody has a different love language, you just have to learn your mates so you can make them feel loved. And they can learn yours as well. :]
lol my mom did the whole study on this, so im pretty in tune with this stuff ;]