ABluePlanetian
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To be honest, I even doubted my NF-ness. Some people, including my friend, said I was an INTJ minus economic credits and plus poetic license. These statement could also be put in question: although I can come across as very distant and opinionated, but that sort of assertion is actually coming from the prejudice and emotional unbalance rather than actual observation. There was quiet lots of events happened in the past that set me into this passive-aggressive phase. If I do actual observation, I will show no judgment and be very accepting to the situation, in a refreshing way. Besides, I want to have the gift of "over-feeling" rather than "over-thinking, over-analyzing" - I could endure a broken heart, but felt irritated when dealing with a distorted mind.
A broken heart sounds much more romantic than a mentally-weak and worrying distorted mind.
But I truly have no clue about this. At one point I just decided, "Alright, I'm an INFP then." I would be happy-go-lucky, never-plan-anything and absorb every bit of my emotions and irrationalities into heart, few weeks later my friend tapped on my shoulder and said, "You are INTJ/INFJ." What's the difference anyway between these types, as long as I can be happy.
I was pretty sure that I was Enneagram 4 (Tritype 4-5-9), which related to lots of nostalgia, dreams and rich inner life and made me wondered if I was using Fi or Fe. But I didn't know whether I possessed Ni-dom or Fi-dom.
A broken heart sounds much more romantic than a mentally-weak and worrying distorted mind.
But I truly have no clue about this. At one point I just decided, "Alright, I'm an INFP then." I would be happy-go-lucky, never-plan-anything and absorb every bit of my emotions and irrationalities into heart, few weeks later my friend tapped on my shoulder and said, "You are INTJ/INFJ." What's the difference anyway between these types, as long as I can be happy.
I was pretty sure that I was Enneagram 4 (Tritype 4-5-9), which related to lots of nostalgia, dreams and rich inner life and made me wondered if I was using Fi or Fe. But I didn't know whether I possessed Ni-dom or Fi-dom.
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