Merced
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- Joined
- May 14, 2016
- Messages
- 3,594
- MBTI Type
- ESTJ
- Enneagram
- 28?
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sp
Join Date: 05-14-2016
I'm 16 days late with my whole 'one year anniversary' thing but hey, what can you do. Seeing how it's been a full 365 days since first joining, I'm confident in saying I have established a presence on the site. Being here, I've made connections with you all and that's exactly what I came here for. I love this site, dude.
Sappy stuff aside... the type I usually rep is NeTe 2w3 - 8w7 - 7w8 sx/so IEE.
NOTES
Q & A
Feel free to ask me anything. I'd love to see what you all type me as.
I'm 16 days late with my whole 'one year anniversary' thing but hey, what can you do. Seeing how it's been a full 365 days since first joining, I'm confident in saying I have established a presence on the site. Being here, I've made connections with you all and that's exactly what I came here for. I love this site, dude.
Sappy stuff aside... the type I usually rep is NeTe 2w3 - 8w7 - 7w8 sx/so IEE.
NOTES
- I've been typed as every single extroverted MBTI type while here and no one can agree on what my aux function truly is. Most can agree I am on the Ne-Si axis, but even that's debatable to some people.
- My enneagram is the thing of most confidence. Some would argue that I am a 827 (as opposed to 287) and others think I am an 3w2.
- I am too uneducated in Socionics to even have a confident self typing.
- My instinctual variant is usually agreed with, with some arguing that I am actually so/sx.
- I am 17 years old, which plays a huge factor into my typing. I also suffer from what has been diagnosed as major depression and anxiety. I no longer take medication for this.
Q & A
What makes you angry?
People questioning my competence. People who are unwilling to make attempts toward success. Cowardly people. People who are opposed to change due to comfort and comfort alone.
What do you like/dislike most about people?
I love how people are so diverse and interesting. You get a random selection of people and you're bound to find something amazing in each and every single one of them. A thing I dislike about them is how uneducated some people can be? Like close-minded and ignorant. Some people are also just naturally bitter, which is annoying.
Do you like animals? Why?
I like them as much as you normally would. I can't say I am all heads over heels for them, they are incapable of verbal conversation. However, I really really like dogs. Something about them radiates trust and love. I am definitely team dog, as dogs are more responsive than cats, which is something I need in life.
What do you like/dislike most about yourself?
I both adore and despise how ahead of the curve I feel. On one hand, I know I'm going to change the world. I have all these plans and ideas that I will make come to fruition. I can help so many people. But because I am so forward minded... I am disconnected from those around me. I don't have the connections I deeply crave. It's like I can do literally anything except the one thing I want to do, which is be with others.
Do you care about being fashionable? Why/why not?
I care about being fashionable in terms of what I think is fashionable. I wear shit I think is cute because I like feeling cute. I'm sure there's aspects of a somewhat repressed sexuality deep down within reasoning, as what I find cute and fun to wear is usually more so on the 'lewd' side of things when I am truly free.
Do you prefer to fit in or stand out?
Stand out. Fitting in won't get you anywhere in life. You gotta take risks.
What makes you feel secure?
Verbal affirmation, 100%.
What do you love and why? Could be people, things, places, etc...
Love is a mutual want and/or need that exceeds a one time usage. There are different genres of love, but they all fall into this category of mutuality.
What do you spend the most time thinking about?
"How can I be better?", "How can I solve this problem?", and "What do I need to do?" are all questions that are constantly on my mind. I also constantly daydream of the future and how I want my success to play out.
How much have you changed over the years? Who were you as a child?
Hoo boy. As a child, I was definitely less aware of the problems surrounding me. I was a violently depressed kid. I'm certain it is because of how much time I spent isolated from everyone else as a result of a broken and silent family. Yet even back then, I was put on a pedestal. I was extremely intelligent for my age (gonna toot my own horn and say I still am). Despite being repressed by my atmosphere and overall environment, I remained outspoken. I was loud and unyielding to things I viewed as unjust. I developed a habit of attaching myself to one person, a "special friend" as my mom worded it to a psychiatrist. In middle school, I had definitely gained a queen bee attitude. No one could really ever challenge me back then. I was the best and I had the stats and capabilities to prove it. Only when moving deeper south did I shed that mentality. Self awareness is the biggest thing that has changed throughout my life. I used to lack it in its entirety and now I almost have too much. I'm assuming that's natural.
Define justice!
Karma. When you do bad things and bad things happen to you. When you do good things and good things happen to you. When actions have consequences. That's justice.
What is beauty?
An aspect of attractiveness that's based on appeal before interference. This can apply in relation to all forms of love.
What are your most important values?
Love. Success. Intimacy. Personal Growth. Money.
What have people seen as your weaknesses?
According to my Nohari window: Loud, Aloof, glum, distant, blase, unattentive, chaotic, and self-satisfied.
People questioning my competence. People who are unwilling to make attempts toward success. Cowardly people. People who are opposed to change due to comfort and comfort alone.
What do you like/dislike most about people?
I love how people are so diverse and interesting. You get a random selection of people and you're bound to find something amazing in each and every single one of them. A thing I dislike about them is how uneducated some people can be? Like close-minded and ignorant. Some people are also just naturally bitter, which is annoying.
Do you like animals? Why?
I like them as much as you normally would. I can't say I am all heads over heels for them, they are incapable of verbal conversation. However, I really really like dogs. Something about them radiates trust and love. I am definitely team dog, as dogs are more responsive than cats, which is something I need in life.
What do you like/dislike most about yourself?
I both adore and despise how ahead of the curve I feel. On one hand, I know I'm going to change the world. I have all these plans and ideas that I will make come to fruition. I can help so many people. But because I am so forward minded... I am disconnected from those around me. I don't have the connections I deeply crave. It's like I can do literally anything except the one thing I want to do, which is be with others.
Do you care about being fashionable? Why/why not?
I care about being fashionable in terms of what I think is fashionable. I wear shit I think is cute because I like feeling cute. I'm sure there's aspects of a somewhat repressed sexuality deep down within reasoning, as what I find cute and fun to wear is usually more so on the 'lewd' side of things when I am truly free.
Do you prefer to fit in or stand out?
Stand out. Fitting in won't get you anywhere in life. You gotta take risks.
What makes you feel secure?
Verbal affirmation, 100%.
What do you love and why? Could be people, things, places, etc...
Love is a mutual want and/or need that exceeds a one time usage. There are different genres of love, but they all fall into this category of mutuality.
What do you spend the most time thinking about?
"How can I be better?", "How can I solve this problem?", and "What do I need to do?" are all questions that are constantly on my mind. I also constantly daydream of the future and how I want my success to play out.
How much have you changed over the years? Who were you as a child?
Hoo boy. As a child, I was definitely less aware of the problems surrounding me. I was a violently depressed kid. I'm certain it is because of how much time I spent isolated from everyone else as a result of a broken and silent family. Yet even back then, I was put on a pedestal. I was extremely intelligent for my age (gonna toot my own horn and say I still am). Despite being repressed by my atmosphere and overall environment, I remained outspoken. I was loud and unyielding to things I viewed as unjust. I developed a habit of attaching myself to one person, a "special friend" as my mom worded it to a psychiatrist. In middle school, I had definitely gained a queen bee attitude. No one could really ever challenge me back then. I was the best and I had the stats and capabilities to prove it. Only when moving deeper south did I shed that mentality. Self awareness is the biggest thing that has changed throughout my life. I used to lack it in its entirety and now I almost have too much. I'm assuming that's natural.
Define justice!
Karma. When you do bad things and bad things happen to you. When you do good things and good things happen to you. When actions have consequences. That's justice.
What is beauty?
An aspect of attractiveness that's based on appeal before interference. This can apply in relation to all forms of love.
What are your most important values?
Love. Success. Intimacy. Personal Growth. Money.
What have people seen as your weaknesses?
According to my Nohari window: Loud, Aloof, glum, distant, blase, unattentive, chaotic, and self-satisfied.
Feel free to ask me anything. I'd love to see what you all type me as.