Knowing what I am is hard, knowing how others see me is even harder.
I would imagine if you asked, though, you would get an array of seemingly conflicting responses.
To the girly-girls, I'm a straight up bitch or, at best, weird.
Others might say I'm combative (I tend to speak up when things are being done The Wrong Way) or cold and insensitive.
Still others see me as some rare and strangely attractive creature that's masculine in mind but very feminine externally (I dress the part; I like aesthetics).
I don't seek attention, it takes people effort and time to warm up to me, unless there is that rare instant connection.
I have my own interests and I follow them. I go places alone and it doesn't bother me.
I may be a P - this makes it hard for me to commit to things long-term - but I have my shit together.
I have been known to analyze things to death.
If a friend comes to me with a problem I have a bad habit of actually trying to solve it.
I also like to throw parties full of mixed social groups, read classic literature, paint, sing, garden, run, take pictures, sew, cook, watch football, and conduct research in theoretical physics. I'm interested in everything.
Don't know if that is what you were looking for.