Pseudo
New member
- Joined
- Jul 2, 2012
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- INTP
- Enneagram
- 5w4
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
Watching more boyfriend (ENFJ) navigate his career feild (we're both creatives) I get more and more worried that my introversion is going to prevent me from ever getting anywhere with my work. Not that I can't hold a conversation or work with people but I just never seem to be able to make the. Same connections. He texted me this morning about the project he starte today and all the friends he's all ready made at work. He's always meeting new people in his industry just talking on the street with strangers. That kind if stuff (talking to strangers, talking about my work) just never occurs to me and always seems inappropriate to me , not to mention exhausting. Anyways just wondering if any Ixxxs have insight on how to be an self employed or just get ahead and make connections when it's sort of against your nature. Lots of people tell me to "just strike up conversations!" But I think they don't realize that unlike them I don't find this enjoyable and I just don't even know where to start. Just thinkin about it make me anxious.