As an intp chick, I come off as really stand offish. However, since cutting my hair, I've been attracting subtle attention from both sexes, mostly males. I come off as frank, hard, and distant. Those who get to know me find me hysterical, friendly, charming, and very nerdy with a progressive mind (I love singing my own praises....hehehehhehehehe). I'm generally a walking contradiction and I confuse people.
Other intp chicks come off as detached, emotionally reserved, soft, and intelligent. Most all of them have a great sense of humor and know a lot of obscure things while maintaining nerdy hobbies and such interests. Most intp chicks have an androgyny thing going including myself.