[INFJ] What Attracts an INFJ man?

[helen]

*sigh* girls always do prefer what's rare and hard to obtain...

heh, *I* don't want an INFJ. One of me is enough.

 

[Domino]

I'll tell you what attracts an INFJ man -

Candy! And show tunes! And weird man-hands! Also, an overprotective view of one's Swingline stapler!

Are you writing this down? It's GOLD!

 

[Thursday]

I'll tell you what attracts an INFJ man -

Candy! And show tunes! And weird man-hands! Also, an overprotective view of one's Swingline stapler!

Are you writing this down? It's GOLD!

Oh yeah
I personally engaging in witty and weird dialogue like this

 

[Domino]

Don't be afraid to walk up and lick his mouth. And I mean a good solid lick that starts at his chin and stops at the end of his nose. Then tell him in broken English that you have turtle herpes. He'll be thrilled!

 

[heart]

And show tunes!

Obscure movie quotes that hold the keys to the answers to life itself.

Also irritate him with vague, puzzling Fi. Don't stop until he explodes with "No one has ever made me as mad as you do! Why is that?"

Then he'll want to spend the rest of his life trying to figure you out, to fix you. To *help* you find the right *system* to live your life properly.

 

[Domino]

Vague puzzling Fi and maddening obscurity! Genius!

 

[Thursday]

Obscure movie quotes that hold the keys to the answers to life itself.

Also irritate them with vague, puzzling Fi.

Ni dom + Fi dom = heaven ?

 

[heart]

Ni dom + Fi dom = heaven ?

Heaven and Hell. Pleasure and Pain. Lots of fire.

 

[bandit]

A close friend, who has been researching and observing the MBTI personality types for years, typed Chopin as INFJ. I was absolutely astonished! Definitely rare

He also typed Muddy Waters and Jerry Garcia as INFJ males.

How different are INFJ females from INFJ males?

 

[heart]

A close friend, who has been researching and observing the MBTI personality types for years, typed Chopin as INFJ. I was absolutely astonished! Definitely rare

Yes, I could see that. What did he type George Sand, if anything?

 

[Tallulah]

I'll tell you what attracts an INFJ man -

Candy! And show tunes! And weird man-hands! Also, an overprotective view of one's Swingline stapler!

Are you writing this down? It's GOLD!

Don't forget the lifesize cardboard cutout of Bob Barker!

 

[bandit]

Yes, I could see that. What did he type George Sand, if anything?

I didn't ask. I should.

 

[Domino]

Don't forget the lifesize cardboard cutout of Bob Barker!

Simply too glorious to mention without wearing my asbestos bikini, woman!

 

[wedekit]

Well, I don't have a preference for women, but I'm sure there is some overlap:

(In no particular order!)


- Integrity
- Intelligence
- Charm
- Talent
- Imagination
- Friendliness
- Open mind
- Creativity
- Thirst for knowledge
- Playfulness
- Independence (Someone who can allow me my quiet time, basically)
- Competitiveness (to a degree)

I think it might have been easier to name things I'm not attracted to, lol.

 

[vince]

a strong F function, or big boobs

 

[JustDave]

Hello.
Strength with vulnerability
Charm and sarcasm
Altruism
Independence
Talent
Honesty and Prudence
Punctuality
Ambition
Artistic ability
Affectionate and sexual
Loyalty
Mature
Selfless

Spot on. Might I add strength and tenacity tempered with benevolence and compassion.

 

[Angry Ayrab]

I am surprised to see that a rockin' body is not on the list... Just kidding, ENFP's aren't pigs.

 

[heart]

Spot on. Might I add strength and tenacity tempered with benevolence and compassion.

You're an INFJ now?

 

[karenk]

I have seen him also typed as ENTJ.

My quintessential INFJ from literature is David Powlett-Jones from To Serve Them All My Days by R. F. Delderfield, gosh what a beautiful expression of male INFJ.

Book and movie both excellent.

I rented the series because I saw someone mention it on this board. He's a great character.

 

[Magic Poriferan]

You're an INFJ now?

...I think we should take heed of his name. He is no particular type. He is just Dave.

DAVE.