[sx] Two types of Sx doms

[Mia.]

you sound like a 7 fixer. just sayin

Hehe, I'm flattered. I am 9 to the core, though, I assure you.

Given most people experience me as , though, it would probably surprise most people to see how intense and uninhibited I am in my brand of pair bonding, in which I am more like

 

[Mal12345]

Actually, I would be curious to hear of manifestations of the sx instinct that are divergent from the romantic or thrill-seeking archetypes.

I do suspect addiction is one of them.

Remember, this thread is all about definition by non-essentials.

 

[Elfboy]

Hehe, I'm flattered. I am 9 to the core, though, I assure you.

Given most people experience me as , though, it would probably surprise most people to see how intense and uninhibited I am in my brand of pair bonding, in which I am more like

not core 7, 7 in your tritype. I don't see any 5 in any of your posts

 

[Thalassa]

*waits for every sx female to claim they don't belong to the second category*

I do, fucker.

 

[Thalassa]

I've been both. What does that mean about me?

I think realistically you can be both, it's just that some people will be extremely one way or the other.

I'm actually both.

 

[Mal12345]

I think realistically you can be both, it's just that some people will be extremely one way or the other.

I'm actually both.

My wifey, too. But not both at the same time.

 

[Mia.]

not core 7, 7 in your tritype. I don't see any 5 in any of your posts

........

....huh?

Before I knew anything about enneagram, and people on here were trying to type me when I first joined, 5 was the #1 guess....

And 5 is definitely how I engage with the world.

 

[Rasofy]

I do, fucker.

''Both'' doesn't count.

 

[skylights]

Remember, this thread is all about definition by non-essentials.

True. I branched a new thread for common manifestations of variants instead.

 

[AphroditeGoneAwry]

But.


Both just want to connect hardcore. It's the values that are different, or even the ego fixation maybe, but it's all SX dom...


FYI. I am both.

 

[lauranna]

*waits for every sx female to claim they don't belong to the second category*

Except me. Predictably.

 

[Riva]

B) wild, intensity junky, promiscuous, "sex drugs and rock and roll"

Assuming I am an Sx dom, I'm definitely this.

I never understood the reason behind or wanted true love or soul mates. It's a bit weird I think. Relationships could be worked on especially the two involved parties have a chemistry. No need to go in search of soul mates. Find a girl you love, who would love you back and you'd miss her when she is not around and ............ Omgoshhhhh I sound like an option (A).

*Silently leaves the thread*

 

[Phoenix]

........... Omgoshhhhh I sound like an option (A).

*Silently leaves the thread*

*rakes you back in*

Nopez ... going by your statement preceding the one I've left up, you're most likely not an sx-dom. SO/SP seems more likely.

 

[Chaotic Harmony]

Hmm.... I can honestly say from 18-26 I was in the second category... And then I finally stopped my partying and wild-child days and settled down and am now firmly in the first category... So... Uh... Maybe it depends on maturity too?

Oh hell... Who am I kidding... From 16-26 I was in the first category....

 

[Riva]

*rakes you back in*

Nopez ... going by your statement preceding the one I've left up, you're not an sx-dom. SO/SP seems more likely.

You should say this as loud as possible. I want to see the reaction of people (especially vent regulars) as to what they think of this statement. Hmmmm... go paste than in my 'what is my-type' thread!!!

Oh yes....

 

[Phoenix]

Oh yes....

Ummm .. No, thank you. The reason why I said you're not an sx-dom is because you just said this:

I never understood the reason behind or wanted true love or soul mates. It's a bit weird I think.

I dunno about other sx-doms --- but to me that almost sounds blasphemous! How can one not want a soulmate that one can completely merge with in a symbiotic relationship. When I separate from my partner or someone I've merged with, it feels like a part of my being is being amputated from me. It's both pain and pleasure - but the pain of distance itself is something of a pleasure because returning to her makes it all the more pleasurable.

That said, I had my fill of Type me threads after my own 26 page epic back on PerC - and of course the fact that no matter who I tried to help with their type and how hard, they always had a counter-argument to support being the type they want to be.

You're what you choose to be and let's just leave it at that.

*curses 9-fix and walks away*

 

[Riva]

How can one not want a soulmate that one can completely merge with in a symbiotic relationship. When I separate from my partner or someone I've merged with, it feels like a part of my being is being amputated from me. It's both pain and pleasure - but the pain of distance itself is something of a pleasure because returning to her makes it all the more pleasurable.

I must surely not be an Sx dom.

and of course the fact that no matter who I tried to help with their type and how hard, they always had a counter-argument to support being the type they want to be.

I have absolutely no counter arguments to support mine because I have no intention of defending eNtp claims at present. But I sure know what my type is.

Hmmmm....

We are totally dragging the conversation off topic. My fault.

*Leaves thread*

 

[chickpea]

I'm both. I like sex drugs & rocknroll the best with a partner in crime. honestly most of my boyfriends have been bad influences in some way and are the ones who get me in the most thrill-seeking situations. plus love itself is an intense, wild experience for me. monogamous doesn't have to mean sappy.

 

[Rasofy]

Except me. Predictably.

I actually considered adding ''except lauranna'', but that could sound indelicate.

 

[onemoretime]

There are probably three types, and if you buy into tritype/trifix, they are likely defined by the different gut fixations. This is my guess; I may be completely off.

8-flavored - active seeking of merging and immersive experiences. Willingness to exert one's influence to acquire these kinds of experiences. A preference for merging of the external into the internal, rather than the other way around. The "sex, drugs and rock 'n' roll" variety

9-flavored - inclination toward perceiving experience as immersive. Will seek merging experiences out, but only out of a desire for intensification, and not a lack of such. A balance of the two kinds that [MENTION=5684]Elfboy[/MENTION] described

1-flavored - desire for merging may be tempered by a need for perfection. Will seek out people and things to intensely focus upon, but can hold out until the object is judged to be sufficient. This is more of the "true love" type.

At the same time, the other fixations make the manifestations of these vary significantly.