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Some Characteristics of the INFJ Child-Some Behaviors to Look For
•INFJ children are intensely thoughtful, private young ones
•Cuddly, happy, cheerful babies…at home; away from home they can be quiet/serious
•INFJ children spend much of their time (all their lives!) inside their heads…very rich fantasy, imagination ability
•the INFJ child can be extremely tuned in to the emotional reality of their family….don’t argue/fight in front of them
•Most INFJ kids are naturally polite, obedient, gentle, patient, considerate kids
•INFJ children are so into their heads they may lag behind mastering some outside physical, sports related activity…they will get it however if interested…just don’t rush them
•INFJ children are naturally tuned into music, fantasy, literature and like to sit and engage in these things early on
•In school INFJ children usually exhibit a love of learning, reading, stories, myths, fairy tales and are very creative
•the INFJ child will easily excel in writing, music, painting, other fine artsy expressions
•the INFJ can be very stubborn when their mind is made up
•the INFJ may hang back from group activities of all kinds unless they know a few of the participants well…don’t push your INFJ into new group things too quickly
•the INFJ will need to spend a lot of time alone…you guessed it….in their heads
•the INFJ will show a marked tendency toward perfectionism
•as they become adolescent their will exhibit more future concerns, future thinking
•the INFJ penchant for future and perfectionist thinking can trouble them greatly as they consider operating in the outside world