Z Buck McFate
Pepperidge Farm remembers.
- Joined
- Aug 25, 2009
- Messages
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- Enneagram
- 5w4
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
It’s entirely possible. Out of the few people I’ve asked directly here there hasn’t been a general consensus on my e type. I’ve tested 4 and 5 consistently and both imo fit me but someone has suggested 9w8 which isn’t completely alien sounding to me either. Idk.
I just want to quickly clarify that when I said, "there are also other posts that made me think this too" - I wasn't speaking about you specifically, I'd meant that the whole string of posts in that area made me want to point out that sx dominance will look different in other enneagram types and a lot of NFs mistype as e4.
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I'm pretty confident in my typing as an e5, and I definitely don't impulsively reach out or get stalker-ish. I've never been the one to make the first move. In fact, I generally need to know someone for 6 months before dating them. And I do feel the passion (I guess it's passion) for certain creature comforts (fine chocolate!!) or an amazing book or movie, but my enjoyment of them starts to atrophy if I don't have someone to share the enthusiasm with. I've posted before in a similar thread that I feel like I'm often in denial about how much connection I want because I hate being dependent on anyone - and yet when I'm in the throes of feeling like, "I don't need anyone to feel enthused about this with me" I'll feel a little too much like Steve Martin's character in the jerk when he throws a kind of tantrum saying, "I don't need you, I don't need anything, all I need is..." and he keeps grabbing things on his way out, listing them as being all the things he needs. I can see people living very sp-ish lives and seeming very content - and I'm just, not. I'm not content unless I'm sharing some kind of strong experience with others.
I need to watch this movie again. It's been too long.