Hello,
I'm not dating this guy but trying to figure him out. He is an ISTJ and I'm an INFP. We met about a month ago and I felt we had a connection. He went out of his way to spend time with me and I felt we flirted a lot. When we spent time in groups I could tell he looked over at me a lot and whenever he talked he would look at me and smile.
Anyway long story short I know he is really stressed at the moment as he is preparing for lots of essays and exams but I sent him a message (without questions) just saying a few of us from a group of people we know are meeting up so I wanted to let him know. He read the message but hasn't replied!! It's been over a week. I haven't sent him another message. I have friends who are ISTJ's and they say to me that I need to be direct as he may not know I'm into him unless I spell it out. I don't know if he is into me and I'm afraid to ask him.
Can anyone give me advice? I'm so confused. I don't know if he is thinking of replying or even interests in me at all. My friends who know him said they though he liked me but he was always very reserved emotionally I guess.
I'm not dating this guy but trying to figure him out. He is an ISTJ and I'm an INFP. We met about a month ago and I felt we had a connection. He went out of his way to spend time with me and I felt we flirted a lot. When we spent time in groups I could tell he looked over at me a lot and whenever he talked he would look at me and smile.
Anyway long story short I know he is really stressed at the moment as he is preparing for lots of essays and exams but I sent him a message (without questions) just saying a few of us from a group of people we know are meeting up so I wanted to let him know. He read the message but hasn't replied!! It's been over a week. I haven't sent him another message. I have friends who are ISTJ's and they say to me that I need to be direct as he may not know I'm into him unless I spell it out. I don't know if he is into me and I'm afraid to ask him.
Can anyone give me advice? I'm so confused. I don't know if he is thinking of replying or even interests in me at all. My friends who know him said they though he liked me but he was always very reserved emotionally I guess.