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Good grief. I never know what to make of this sort of thing. Some people criticize enjoying and, heaven forbid, personally partaking of something from other cultures as "cultural appropriation". Where is the line between appropriation, which presumably is disrespectful and bad, and appreciation, which I would hope is good and allows us to, well, appreciate the diversity of the world around us? I for one would get very bored if everyone was like me, did the same things, etc. I like hearing and seeing things that are outside my own lived experience. If I enjoy them, I want to keep listening/watching, and perhaps even participate myself. I find it hard to understand how people can be offended by that.Well it was a few years ago but there was an african-american girl on this forum I was on, and she started complaining how more white people were listening to rap music, and how it'd lead to them thinking it was "okay to use the N word" and how after all the things our race had done to her race she didn't want white people "claiming" the music. And it led to a very heated debate and I wasn't sure how I should...really feel about it empathetically I guess? Another biracial (she is half-black) friend I still have today, she said she felt this person was being pretty irrational and was out of line about it. But I guess I am curious how a bigger picture feels about the issue.
Reminds me of the time I was having dinner in a restaurant with some grad school friends, to celebrate one of them graduating. We were all wearing sarees, just for fun (one of the friends is Indian, and shared hers with us). When I walked through the lobby to go to the rest room there was an Indian family on their way in who started giving me funny looks, as if white women shouldn't be wearing the things. Obviously my Indian friend was not of the same mindset.