Julius_Van_Der_Beak
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It is interesting to me how people might view someone on the left spectrum who occasionally interacts with right-wing people, or maybe recognizing that some concerns conservative people might be legitimate.
In some cases, this is considered "open-minded" or "pragmatic". In other cases, this means that you are apparently secretly one of them and just pretending to be on the left and probably secretly have racist or misogynist views.
It is interesting to pay attention to which judgments are applied where. It seems to me that you can compromise on things like abortion rights, government regulation of the economy, social safety nets, police spending, government surveillance, even unjustified invasions of sovereign nations and this is fine. What isn't fine is when you say that "you know what, you're right, it does suck that there are no jobs where you are out in the country and everything is in a state of disrepair". Because apparently everyone who doesn't live in a city is an irredeemable bigot.
In general it seems that compromising and watering down of policy and issues is a-ok. What is not ok is having empathy for other human beings and trying to understand (actually understand) why they might think this even if you do not agree. I'll also note that understanding where someone is coming from does not mean you have to think that person is a good person, or like them, or want to associate them. You can understand why someone thinks something and still think they are a shitty person for thinking that. For me it's a case-by-case basis. I see some people who vote for right-wing policies as good people who happen to be extremely misguided. Others, not so much.
In some cases, this is considered "open-minded" or "pragmatic". In other cases, this means that you are apparently secretly one of them and just pretending to be on the left and probably secretly have racist or misogynist views.
It is interesting to pay attention to which judgments are applied where. It seems to me that you can compromise on things like abortion rights, government regulation of the economy, social safety nets, police spending, government surveillance, even unjustified invasions of sovereign nations and this is fine. What isn't fine is when you say that "you know what, you're right, it does suck that there are no jobs where you are out in the country and everything is in a state of disrepair". Because apparently everyone who doesn't live in a city is an irredeemable bigot.
In general it seems that compromising and watering down of policy and issues is a-ok. What is not ok is having empathy for other human beings and trying to understand (actually understand) why they might think this even if you do not agree. I'll also note that understanding where someone is coming from does not mean you have to think that person is a good person, or like them, or want to associate them. You can understand why someone thinks something and still think they are a shitty person for thinking that. For me it's a case-by-case basis. I see some people who vote for right-wing policies as good people who happen to be extremely misguided. Others, not so much.
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