I really do envy this in my ENFP friends. My ENFP friend Julie can be dumped, miserable, find a new boyfriend and fall in love again in the space of what seems like a few hours.I'm always in love with thoughts or ideals or people or things.
I really do envy this in my ENFP friends. My ENFP friend Julie can be dumped, miserable, find a new boyfriend and fall in love again in the space of what seems like a few hours.
INFP Kurt Cobain's line "I wish I was like you, easily amused" could be an INFP's take on ENFPs--though I highly doubt it was...
lol...nooo, it's not that easy. Not for me at least. If I really loved someone there was no just moving on, not in reality, maybe an illusion of that though.I really do envy this in my ENFP friends. My ENFP friend Julie can be dumped, miserable, find a new boyfriend and fall in love again in the space of what seems like a few hours.
Really? What happened? I'm starting to get to the point where I've realized keeping all these things in really works against me. I've always been so private about my feelings outside of a romantic relationship(and once there's been a breakup, I go back to not talking about how I feel). As result, I appear a lot stronger and harder than I actually am(my friends think I'm an ENTP).Yep, I'm the same way. Under extreme stress I recently said too much and shared something like this, but it will never happen again. It's nobodies business!
I hear you.I honestly was stressed and wasn't thinking about how I would feel after I shared the personal details about my past relationship. Not like I went into much detail. Trust me, I didn't go into much detail! The other person responded by asking me if I wanted to borrow their time machine. I had that NFP "come to jesus moment". I'd still do the same thing all over again in the past relationship for the same selfish reasons. Yeah, I really know what I'm doing!
... now that I'm a little older and wiser, I'd like to believe I wouldn't make the same mistakes again in matters of the heart and also matters of my need to stay private about certain things. Only time will tell.
Okay.
Frankly, at the moment. Love can kiss my ass.
I get tired of being burned. And I get tired of helping others and getting shafted. And people who think holding back because it might hurt me, is better than just getting it the fuck over with.
When they don't return the love you have for them, but you keep loving them anyway.
I know how you feel man. I have been through that alot to. You give people a hand and they take your whole arm. Pisses me of to. My last relationship really left a scar on me and since then I kinda put a hold on Love.
But I know when I'm in Love when:
- All the worries I have don't seem to matter anymore.
- I can take on the world.
- I start to be alot more social and alive and seem to want to spread this Love feeling to the world.
- Everything seems more beautiful, every sound, touch,the smell of nature. The feeling of the sun hitting my face. The wind blowing.
- I sacrifice time to be with her.
- I Enjoy her whole presence. Her body, her mind her everything. It just consumes me.
I know when I'm in love when my heart beats nervously, happily, lively all at the same time.
- enjoy looking at her when she's a sleeps.
etc.
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*sigh*
According to most of these posts, I guess I love multiple people I know at least just a little.
When you're passionately making out and he quickly needs to check his email for some stupid reason and you're laughing because it's ridiculously ridiculous.
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Even the mushy stuff...