Virtual ghost
Complex paradigm
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That's like trying to control your bladder. Painful, exhausting and you'll eventually explode.
IME, NFs can appriciate the NTJ sense of humor. I get the sense they admire it, in some way. SFs are a different story, though. Careful with that.
I like to hit'em hard. If they say something funny, I react like I'd normally react, see what happens. If they can't handle my sense of humor, how fun is it going to be for me to date them, if I can't ever express joy the way I naturally do? Controlling your sense of humor, would lead them on under false pretenses, a bit. And how do you know they won't love you sense of humor? Maybe that's what makes you separate from other men? If you control your sense of humor, maybe that becomes you fall. But if they end up hating your sense of humor, at least you were true to yourself which makes it easier to live with failure.
I know, it is just that I don't think it is wise to use it much of it in the first few hours of knowing each other. Nothing more.
But I am not talking about dating here I am talking about normal friendships.
(just saying)