You should read a book called 'They F*** You up' by Oliver James. It will make you feel a lot better. You can get a used copy on Amazon for $1.70!
I like this woman. I use to want to be a writer and 3 years ago I changed my mind and ever since than I've been searchingPoor prpl, as long as you are happy(?,) who needs them?
As a women in her 60's told me (she goes to college like I do,) "20s is a lot of time, I mean, compared to me, you still have quite a bit of time to think about what you want to do."
I think I like youi'm 23 and haven't figured it out either. i was really down about it earlier this year but i keep meeting more and more and more people around our ages who are in the same place. and people older than us. and people older than us who have changed life directions multiple times.
i feel like the people who get on our backs about it are the ones who have the problem, not us. why do we have to have it all figured out now? just to suit their cookie cutter model of how life should go? no, thank you. we will dance our lives to our own rhythms.
I think I like you
i'm glad we're alike. i am tired of people who have their whole lives planned out. i think we're more interesting, anyway. more room for possibility
things can change so quickly too... last spring i was single. now i am thinking i am in a relationship with someone i might just maybe be with for the rest of my life. and that scares my Pness.
why do we want to have our lives figured out anyway...? too confining...
I like this woman. I use to want to be a writer and 3 years ago I changed my mind and ever since than I've been searching
25 still no direction no degree and people being like well what have you been doing. Fine I'm a failure but do people have to point it out?
True story:
I used to play music with a keyboard player from NJ. He decided to change his life and drove across country to do so. He had no destination in mind. He ended up working as a janitor at the University of Montana in Missoula. He got two masters degrees there. Now he is a tenured professor and the director of the Media Arts program.
he did all of this in his mid-40s!