Unkindloving
Lungs & Lips Locked
- Joined
- Dec 10, 2009
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- ENFJ
- Enneagram
- 4w5
To me, it's just doing what satiates me. If i'm happy working a basic job just so i can embrace going on small adventures with my close friends, then fantastic. If i'm happy traveling to new places because i want to visit people and not with sightseeing as my first priority, so be it.
I've always come across this misconception of "The big house with the white picket fence. Babies and a dog running around and tending to them. A successful career and traveling all over the world to see various things and climb the highest mountains!" While this is fantastic and true of some people, it is the furthest thing from living my life to the fullest for me. I'm fairly simple and laid back and my basis can seem very pseudo-Fi when it's just me and then seem very ENFJ-Fe-insanity when others are involved.
I would rather enjoy my life as i live it, than strive to enjoy it eventually. People die before eventually, so why die unsatisfied? Not to say people who want the larger things in life are wrong, but everyone should make time for enjoyment throughout their journey.
I just want to enjoy who i am and the people i care about. Nothing too extravagant.
I've always come across this misconception of "The big house with the white picket fence. Babies and a dog running around and tending to them. A successful career and traveling all over the world to see various things and climb the highest mountains!" While this is fantastic and true of some people, it is the furthest thing from living my life to the fullest for me. I'm fairly simple and laid back and my basis can seem very pseudo-Fi when it's just me and then seem very ENFJ-Fe-insanity when others are involved.
I would rather enjoy my life as i live it, than strive to enjoy it eventually. People die before eventually, so why die unsatisfied? Not to say people who want the larger things in life are wrong, but everyone should make time for enjoyment throughout their journey.
I just want to enjoy who i am and the people i care about. Nothing too extravagant.