ESI-Se ♥ EVFL ♥ 8w9 (826) Sx/So
- Jan 17, 2018
Obviously not. If anything, it's dumb if they don't. People should think for themselves and not just blindly accept things. It's one thing to understand that you don't know the person as well as they know themselves and thus give some benefit of the doubt, but if someone thinks it's "not nice" to question something it's more or less a red flag to me, if anything. I don't give a fuck about feelings in that context: truth is truth.Is it a personal offense for someone to question your type?
That really just depends. If you're strong-willed and refuse to be overcome by anyone or anything, but someone associates you with a type that is envious, self-loathing, and tends to get caught up in a victim mindset while playing the rescuee role, is that insulting? Well...if they're supposed to actually know you then it could potentially be insulting to someone, anyway. Whether it's offensive to you or an insult to the person mistyping is just relative to your perspective mainly.Is it a personal offense when someone mistypes you?
I no longer personalize other peoples' lack of perceptiveness. I know myself. If they don't see what's there, that's got nothing to do with me. I just won't take their people reading skills or typing knowledge seriously. I don't see why I should be offended just because someone else sucks at something, or misunderstands typology, or misinterprets my words/behaviors, or whatever. Annoying, sure...offensive? Hardly.