Keep in mind that it's 6 am and I just got up half an hour ago when you read this post. Lol.
From what I've observed Ne doms seem almost detached when they are posting, like they are freely exploring the idea of the thread in their head as they're writing, letting out pretty much anything that they think of as they talk about the topic. This is why a lot of Ne doms derail, twist and turn the points to where they aren't as they originally were, etc.
But...
When they actually DO stay on topic they provide unique insight and bring up points about the topic that people aren't thinking about. But a lot of the time all that they really do is derail in some way, because they are just letting their mind free flow (letting isn't a good word, it's more like their Ne is overtaking them in their post).
That's how I see Ne doms in their posting.
I don't see that at all in marmalade, not in the least. She is clearly an Fi dom.
Did you agree with the get things going style that an ENFP has?
Get-Things-Going This really doesn't seem like you for me. You aren't really a catalyst from people on here, you just seem to stick to your guns, your own points, and just generally don't catalyze people. On here the ENFPs seem to naturally do this. You seem more behind the scenes like an INFP is supposed to be-
Behind-the-Scenes