Of course it is, but what type?
If I make effort, I may not think the way I do now after, I might become like others, change too much.
Me adapting to other is weird:
Like, if I think of living in UNI dormitory, I fear my roommates I'd live with would be people I can't stand. I would probably be very serious about not behaving like them at all.
I do think I am chameleon, but in a weird way. If I like someone, I will probably try to adapt their behavior to mine, see how it goes, and then with time kinda compress it, and take only what fits. However, if I don't like someone, I might even refuse to buy the bread, if I find out that she buys it too, so yea, it's serious.
Also, I am following a vlogger on youtube. She's just person I like, and feel like that she would very seriously influence me. I have been planning to watch the videos for 2 years now I think. But I can't do that, because that would change me a lot, like even 1 video could influence me and disbalance me.
I will mention that I am xxNJ, I think it plays an important role here too.
What do you think, guys?
That's actually a fear I have. What does it mean?The danger is losing contact with one’s real self in this effort, and becoming overly identified with one’s role at work.".
If I make effort, I may not think the way I do now after, I might become like others, change too much.
Me adapting to other is weird:
Like, if I think of living in UNI dormitory, I fear my roommates I'd live with would be people I can't stand. I would probably be very serious about not behaving like them at all.
I do think I am chameleon, but in a weird way. If I like someone, I will probably try to adapt their behavior to mine, see how it goes, and then with time kinda compress it, and take only what fits. However, if I don't like someone, I might even refuse to buy the bread, if I find out that she buys it too, so yea, it's serious.
Also, I am following a vlogger on youtube. She's just person I like, and feel like that she would very seriously influence me. I have been planning to watch the videos for 2 years now I think. But I can't do that, because that would change me a lot, like even 1 video could influence me and disbalance me.
I will mention that I am xxNJ, I think it plays an important role here too.
What do you think, guys?