Just people taking liberties, I guess. I usually don't mind and automatically put my feelings aside to get on with things and do the best job, task focused sorta thing. But when people just take for granted that I will always do that and deliberately take no account of what my feelings might be, y'know, they don't think that though I do this, I might not mind not HAVING to do it now and again! That pisses me off.
And when people question my honor or integrity. That deeply insults me, if it's done consciously, and irritates me even if I know it's not done on purpose.
Most minor things that people apologize for, it kinda irritates me that they do. Like they're saying I would consider it an option to get uptight or annoyed about it, like I'm some kind of asshole. I guess I kinda hope that people notice by my behaviour that I'm pretty forgiving and honorable, cos I work hard at being so, so if they're apologizing like that it's like they didn't notice, which makes me feel like my efforts to be a good person are for nothing. That's demoralizing, but not really hurtful in the sense F's tend to mean it... I don't feel personally attacked or anything and don't blame that person, I don't beat myself up or anything... just get a bit demoralized
I dunno... it's pretty difficult to HURT me in the way I seem to see F's being hurt, but plenty of things irritate me or get on my nerves, but it's not even real anger at those things, it's just ... I guess there is a lot of passion inside but it's in a protected area, not that I don't show or display it but I only do on my terms, so I guess cos it spends a lot of its time repressed (not being able to "get at" the real external causes of it), I tend to let it out in little spurts all the time over any silly thing that gives me the excuse to release a bit of built up steam, whether that be irritation, anger, happiness, amusement... so on the surface there's this false impression of perhaps volatility (growling at other drivers on the road, flipping the bird, hearty laughter, bursts of enthusiasm, emphatic expressions of approval/disgust etc), covering up for the real passion inside that's very much controlled, focused and disciplined.