Certified Sausage Smoker
- Nov 26, 2008
- MBTI Type
- Instinctual Variant
how strong is your enneagram wing?
I'm definitely more of a 6w5, but I think I have a fairly strong 7 wing as well - perhaps somewhat balanced wings. Generally 6w5 fits better but I have read 6w7 descriptions that also fit very well. I genuinely feel like a combination of 6w5 and 6w7.
strong enough that i seriously considered 5w4. and i don't relate to a 3 wing at all.
When I first got into enneagram, I identified so heavily with 4 and 5 that I had trouble deciding which was my type. The more I learned, the more it became evident I am clearly a 4. Both can hit uncomfortably close to home though. So I think my 5 wing is strong enough to have a clear effect on my personality, but the 4 defines me better, & I don't think I'd be confused for a 5 by others. I don't relate to the 3 wing, even though I think it sounds great. I considered it, and it just didn't fit. There are minor, often "stereotypical", aspects in 4w3 descriptions I can relate to (ie. using fashion to assert identity), but when it comes to specific traits, motivations & over all appearance, it's not nearly as accurate as the 4w5.