jaku
New member
- Joined
- Dec 18, 2008
- Messages
- 65
- MBTI Type
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 4,5?
who wants to be my girlfriend?
i don't want to make anybody want me.
lookin for a mutual thing here...
ideally meet all of the following criteria:
human
sexual outlet
sexual inlet
listener
sharer
learner
experienced
what i want is a girlfriend who expects those same things from a relationship.
maybe we could have kids some day?
i definitely aspire to hopefully father a child.
but probably not right now or right here.
though, later, there, settle down in the proper community and be a family.
what I'm looking for is someone to share a purpose with. my purpose with. who lends a hand when that's all my vision needs for its actualization but also questions and criticizes my purpose when she see's it's faulted or misaligned.
someone who sets challenging while realistic goals to achieve and standards to meet in an effort to make/mean something substantial.
even if that means we should act like children sometimes.
someone who understands and can apply but does not necessarily uphold the general social rules of 'appropriateness'.
someone who loves and appreciates the efficiency of like-minded teamwork, but isn't afraid to diy when necessary.
add to list:
fertile
attractive (mostly symmetrical and smooth)
purpose-driven (value-cored)
mature
self-aware
physically fit
not arrogant
high self-esteem (accomplished. accurate sense of self-worth)
is there a way to find one of these in the milwaukee area which is not imported from another culture/society?
i am honestly and sincerely asking anyone who may answer: where can I even meet a girl fits the describings above (better still: someone younger than my mother. she is 48 years old)?
maybe just start posting ads in local publications / libraries / bars / parks / McDonalds' / random apartment lobbies:
"looking for a woman looking for a man who is:
? I'm so completely lost and hopeless.
i don't want to make anybody want me.
lookin for a mutual thing here...
ideally meet all of the following criteria:
human
sexual outlet
sexual inlet
listener
sharer
learner
experienced
what i want is a girlfriend who expects those same things from a relationship.
maybe we could have kids some day?
i definitely aspire to hopefully father a child.
but probably not right now or right here.
though, later, there, settle down in the proper community and be a family.
what I'm looking for is someone to share a purpose with. my purpose with. who lends a hand when that's all my vision needs for its actualization but also questions and criticizes my purpose when she see's it's faulted or misaligned.
someone who sets challenging while realistic goals to achieve and standards to meet in an effort to make/mean something substantial.
even if that means we should act like children sometimes.
someone who understands and can apply but does not necessarily uphold the general social rules of 'appropriateness'.
someone who loves and appreciates the efficiency of like-minded teamwork, but isn't afraid to diy when necessary.
add to list:
fertile
attractive (mostly symmetrical and smooth)
purpose-driven (value-cored)
mature
self-aware
physically fit
not arrogant
high self-esteem (accomplished. accurate sense of self-worth)
is there a way to find one of these in the milwaukee area which is not imported from another culture/society?
i am honestly and sincerely asking anyone who may answer: where can I even meet a girl fits the describings above (better still: someone younger than my mother. she is 48 years old)?
maybe just start posting ads in local publications / libraries / bars / parks / McDonalds' / random apartment lobbies:
"looking for a woman looking for a man who is:
- human
- sexual outlet
- sexual inlet
- listener
- sharer
- learner
- experienced
- fertile
- attractive
- purpose-driven
- mature
- self-aware
- physically fit
- not arrogant
- high self-esteem"
? I'm so completely lost and hopeless.
