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[ENFJ] Female ENFJS: Describe your ideal guy
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Oooh, I just thought of one.
The willingness and ability of the guy to knock me on my ass. Sounds bad, but it's true.
The willingness and ability of the guy to knock me on my ass. Sounds bad, but it's true.
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natural authority is a must... if he can't instinctively get the better of me in certain arenas, i feel disconnected... granted i don't mean physical abuse, i mean cognitively/personally...
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That's weird.
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Yes yes and yes. I understand.
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Dream guy:Smartknow-it-all,funnysarcastic,outgoingrestless,kindpushover, and,quirkyinsane. But if you are going for an ego boost, there are many attractive qualities to INFP males...There's a whole thread about that.
I think we were made for each other....
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LMAO. The next step is to scare you off with my looks. I have a f****** sexy unibrow coming at you!I think we were made for each other....
yeah, why is that weird??? Do tell, pls.
Do u not understand why that is the case?
i will say i kno it seems like us ENFJ chicks dont want that, we want like a subservient slave or something, but really we just love social interaction so much, we cant help ourselves but be forward, obnoxious, and in-your-face challenging everybody all the time... (speaking for myself, not all the other female ENFJs
)n pretty sure we all still want someone w/ ... idk...well like pink said, natural authority. its thrilling to be challenged right back, n happens so rarely.
Thats really the def of flirting w/ a female enfj- we dont really want to dominate, we want an equal...someone who can match us and challenge us back.
I'm not single though...what do you other girls think?
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LMAO. The next step is to scare you off with my looks. I have a f****** sexy unibrow coming at you!
RAWR
Also if you want I can act like an INFP male for you.
Crying during sex, yeah baby I know that TURNS YOU ON.
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yeah, why is that weird??? Do tell, pls.
Do u not understand why that is the case?
i will say i kno it seems like us ENFJ chicks dont want that, we want like a subservient slave or something, but really we just love social interaction so much, we cant help ourselves but be forward, obnoxious, and in-your-face challenging everybody all the time... (speaking for myself, not all the other female ENFJs
n pretty sure we all still want someone w/ ... idk...well like pink said, natural authority. its thrilling to be challenged right back, n happens so rarely.
Thats really the def of flirting w/ a female enfj- we dont really want to dominate, we want an equal...someone who can match us and challenge us back.
I'm not single though...what do you other girls think?
It's part of my love language I think. Even when I was a little girl, dueling with little boys was high on my list. It was something of a test to see what they were made of, like dropping gold in acid. I love a strong-willed guy with good breeding who knows how to mix it up without being disrespectful or low. By natural authority, I mean a man who doesn't have to exert himself to influence me. It just happens. *zen chimes*
I loved mixing it up with my eNTP. He was incredibly smart and glib. Dry sense of humor. Never shouted. I could tell when he was mad or frustrated because his tone mostly just altered without going up. He'd spend what time he had between jobs harassing me in that same super dry, pokepokepoke manner that made me/everyone want to kill him. He wanted me to jump him. Or beat his test scores. Or rig his car to defy him.
It was very sharpening. I loved it. He'd be a beast and then be in my back pocket all day. ENTP foreplay. Our kumites and verbal exchanges were high comedy around the garage.
RAWR
Also if you want I can act like an INFP male for you.
Crying during sex, yeah baby I know that TURNS YOU ON.
say WHAT?!?!
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I know, who would have thought? I clicked on the link expecting to just see a barrage of posts sporting Edward's name... with maybe a Mr. Darcy here and there...
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Do you mean Edward Scissorhands? If so, I want in.
