HomerSoprano
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I´ve read a couple of times that ESFP´s dont like anxiety at all. So woul it be a bad idea to tell an ESFP female that I´m nervous around her even though I like her?
I´ve read a couple of times that ESFP´s dont like anxiety at all. So woul it be a bad idea to tell an ESFP female that I´m nervous around her even though I like her?
The question is, will it do you any good pointing out you get nervous around her? What are you hoping to achieve by telling her that? While she may think it's sweet she will come to the conclusion that you are not hook up material.
Too vague a question to give a helpful response.
Why are you nervous? What are you nervous about? What do you expect to achieve by telling her this?
Maybe, but depending on how he's been acting, it might clear up a lot of misconceptions. I know people are confusing when their nervous. Maybe telling her that he's nervous will explain a lot.. It depends on the situation.
I´m nervous because she´s superhot and flirtatious. And she´s communicating in a way that is very direct and that´s something that I´m far from used to. Since I´m an INTP I have a hard time expressing my feelings and telling her that I´m nervous is easier than telling her I like her and in my book not exactly the same thing. And I´m very often nervous around girls so telling her that is one step further to telling her I like her.
And by telling her this my intentions is to make her understand I´m intrested in her and want to get know her a little bit better and that I might come across as too distant if I don´t because she was surprised the first time I flirted with her.
i'm an ESFP and i've dated a VERY anxious, bipolar INTP.
I'd say that we're opposite ends of the spectrum.
His nervousness and general 'air du mystere' was really attractive to me, and it worked for me. That flatters me that he was nervous.
Is there anything else that the INTP flattered you with that only he did? MBTI wise of course. If you´re into socionics, have you read up on the duality between INTP and ESFP?
Just found out she´s a psychopath, used to be suspicious but am now 100% sure. Glad I never had anything more to do with her. And I´m not the type of person who throws these kinds of labels around easily.