BlahBlahNounBlah
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- Dec 16, 2008
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- 7w6
I prefer to be pursued because, left to my own devices, I will never develop an interest in someone. I am too busy to notice guys because I have 12 things going at all times. Unfortunately, the wrong men are the ones who actively pursue me. They immediately latch on to the way I look and think they can appeal to me with flattery. I don't know about you girls, but I am much more impressed when a guy notices my wit and intelligence rather than my looks.
Perhaps I should start doing the pursuing, but I just don't care enough.
I'm actually repulsed when someone who understands nothing about my personality tries to attract me. Why would I waste my time?

And the worst is hearing a generic line that I immediately know has been used 25 times. Disgusting. If someone isn't interested enough to customize his attention, he isn't interested enough to date me.