A member on this forum told me It was likely I was a 3w4. At first, it made sense; ambitious, huge goals and a little bit reserved. I want to make something of myself and dont want to feel worthless. Finally, something that I can relate to.
But they seem to be obsessed with their image. I can be kinda sloppy with how I dress, all my clothes don't fit perfect, I don't try to please others and fit their needs. I can be kind and charming, but that's something that everyone is capable off. And i dont really care that much what other think of me, except for those very close to me.
I have a lot of anger inside of me. Some time ago when I was in a dark place, I would literally seek conflict. Now I don't, but I'm not afraid to say when I don't agree or when something is done wrong. I'm physically weak so I'd easily get my ass kicked, but I'm not afraid of pain so I can confront people rather aggressively sometimes.
All these traits that I have make it pretty difficult to maintain a relationship with my depressed girlfriend, as you can imagine.
But what do I know? Maybe I am a 3 and just don't know enough about it. That's why I'm starting this thread, and I would appreciate it if someone could help me identify my ennegram type!
But they seem to be obsessed with their image. I can be kinda sloppy with how I dress, all my clothes don't fit perfect, I don't try to please others and fit their needs. I can be kind and charming, but that's something that everyone is capable off. And i dont really care that much what other think of me, except for those very close to me.
I have a lot of anger inside of me. Some time ago when I was in a dark place, I would literally seek conflict. Now I don't, but I'm not afraid to say when I don't agree or when something is done wrong. I'm physically weak so I'd easily get my ass kicked, but I'm not afraid of pain so I can confront people rather aggressively sometimes.
All these traits that I have make it pretty difficult to maintain a relationship with my depressed girlfriend, as you can imagine.
But what do I know? Maybe I am a 3 and just don't know enough about it. That's why I'm starting this thread, and I would appreciate it if someone could help me identify my ennegram type!