Now I'm not sure about the readers but I'm an ENFP 3w4 (I'll try to describe 3w2 as well)
♦ First of all, being an ENFP means that my functions are Ne Fi Te Si.
♦ The 3w4 enhances my Te since 'what you do represents you', I refuse to put poor work/projects under my name because I hate to feel like I'm representing myself with trash, I take pride in my work, and I always make sure it is done efficiently and nicely, I can be a perfectionist at times, but others I'm pure focused and only hope to get the work done. I also like to make sure my work is always at the top.
♦ 3 is identity focused, which Fi pretty much controls. The way you react represents the way you feel about things, your emotions is what gives you a personality. Fi=values which controls your emotions = 3's identity (who I am). Whatever I feel dominates my personality, it overshadows my other traits and becomes my main personality (4 exageration of emotions?). One minute I'm your ruthless competitor, next the paranoid conspiracy theorist, and somehow even the angry preacher at times. One would not be able to recognise me when I'm feeling something other than what they have first seen when they first met me.
♦ Speaking of the point above, disintegration to type 9 is the most painful thing I could experience, it's like suddenly losing all my emotions (identities) and feeling nothing, I look (and feel) emotionally dead, sometimes become slow and unresponsive, I feel like I can not connect to anyone or anything. Even my functions feel shut off? And any conflict would dreadfully drain me even more.. (I'm the type of people who stands up to conflict and sometimes even low-key enjoy it)
♦ On the point above, whenever I look back at this disintegration, I see a person trying to escape in a dead body, unable to feel anything, unable to tremble, yet suffering greatly, trying to gasp out for a breath of air, trying to catch some emotion, yet feeling unable to even move. Or feeling deeper down as you're trying to reach up to your emotions.
♦ With the help of my Te and 3w4, I often feel really prideful (and vain), sometimes leading me to even feel superior and above everyone. This sometimes causes conflict when working with others. I always feel like my ideas are better and that my team member should just follow my lead, otherwise I would always rather work alone. (I understand that we all got ideas, but one is obviously trash, they should just keep it to themselves and save their dignity)
♦ 3w2 ENFPs are more open/friendly and authentic with others, they tend to have stronger Fi than Te, they are acheivers but do love to help and include others.
♦ 3w2 ENFPs are not the true stereotype of ENFPs, but they're naturally charming, sweet, and social
♦ 3w4 ENFPs are more likely to come off as vain, self centered, and work focused and are likely to not care about others emotions if they see no value or worth in them
♦ Being an ENFP like any other type means that you're always in a soft loop if your not using your auxilliary function. ENFP 3s are likely to forget or ignore their values are they go acheiving or trying to accomplish their goals. 3w2 are faster to notice if they hurt a person and are likely to apolagize, 3w4s in the other hand will either notice or not that they've hurt other people, if their Fi suddenly kicks in they may feel bad, but 3w4s in general aren't the people to really care about apologizing.
(anyways I'm typing this in a hurry and I didn't type a lot of things plus a lot of this is more personal so idk if it applies to others and I'M AWARE THERE MIGHT BE SPELLING MISTAKES I GOTTA GO NOW I'LL JUST END THE POST HERE)