[NF] enfj,infj and seduction

[chado]

since enfjs and infjs are the best at reading people,and descibed by many people as the best an influencing people,ill take it that enfjs,and infjs are the best at seduction,like seducing the opposite sex,
so to the enfjs,and infjs,how do you if you were to seduce the opposite sex?dont be shy just explain(as i can learn from this,not to pick up girls but about infjs and enfjs)and give some detail about it too.
also i can picture an enfj gone bad,would be like one of those cult leaders,who ends up having affairs,with lots of women,and just down right bad,even influencing young girls to have sex with him,
anyways,
questions
1)how would you go about seducing the opposite sex or same sex to amles and females can answer
2)lets say hypotheticaly if you realy wanted someone of the oppsoite sex,or same sex how or what would you do
3)if someone were to give 1000$ if you could get a straight person of the oppsite sex to ramonticaly llike you or sexual how would you do it?

 

[á´…eparted]

since enfjs and infjs are the best at reading people,and descibed by many people as the best an influencing people

This is not true at all. It's a old tired stereotype.

 

[Norrsken]

I'm privileged in that I don't have to actively flirt to get someone else's attention. Sounds rude, but its true.
That said, I like being extra nice to those I am attracted to. Obviously, I no longer do this, as I am married, but I loved flirting and teasing my husband when we were online dating and long distance.

NFJ people have Fe, so they are more likely to make other people feel good and want to be around the NFJ more. I doubt that's specifically seduction, imo.

 

[Nom]

The title was funny so it got me here.
1)how would you go about seducing the opposite sex or same sex to amles and females can answer

• ENFJs are givers. The purpose of seduction will not be to take. So your imagination of the cult leader...he wouldn't be doing that unless his purpose was to give himself away to his harem. Moreover, ENFJs value long term and meaningful relationships. So the harem scenario just doesn't seem possible. Remember we are givers. If ENFJs seduce, they would do it so they can be appreciated, or to please the other party. To be appreciated, they would of course highlight their charm. This can be done in multitudes of ways depending on who you are and what you believe your charm point to be. ENFJs already pick up on what makes their love interest tick, so pleasing them is not a difficult task. Rather than seduction, I would say most people are drawn to ENFJs for the reasons that ENFJs know what people like without it being said and they just give, give and give.

2)lets say hypotheticaly if you realy wanted someone of the oppsoite sex,or same sex how or what would you do

• Please them.

3)if someone were to give 1000$ if you could get a straight person of the oppsite sex to ramonticaly llike you or sexual how would you do it?

• Never. We would rather leave the situation than to harm people. But if an ENFJ really wanted to seduce someone and dump them afterwards they would do it specifically for revenge. Then again, their method would be: to please.