I'm forced to assume you either can't or won't get this concept, so nevermind.
Perhaps that we just don't agree.

Cool.
By "ignoring" I mean simply not considering it a significant difference. I don't mean that we will literally not notice that other people have different skin colors, just that we need a broader cultural shift toward not placing any importance on it.
Broader cultural shift. Phasing out racism on a personal level which will affect the future. I said that too. This has nothing to do with what's happening right now, and has nothing to do with solving the issues of now.
Give me example of how my teaching a 4-year to think of race as insignificant somehow prevents him from having to come face to face with the reality of it every single day? Please. Do that.
You think racism among public school teachers is "quite common", do you? Let's see some backing for that, please.
In any event, if your child's public school teacher is treating him markedly differently out of racial prejudice, it's time to talk to the principal/police/local news. You can take this to court if necessary; I just really don't see why you think public school teachers would show significant patterns of racism, so maybe here is a place where you could provide some statistics that are actually relevant.
How about full on articles and books. Some of these books I read when I was in elementary school to help me understand what I was dealing with. Good reads.
To the bolded, that's a good question to ask.
Racism in America's Schools. ERIC Digest
Facing Racism in Education, Third Edition-Harvard Educational Review, Reprint Series No. 39
Amazon.com: Savage Inequalities: Children in America's Schools (9780060974992): Jonathan Kozol: Books
Amazon.com: The Shame of the Nation: The Restoration of Apartheid Schooling in America (9781400052455): Jonathan Kozol: Books
Amazon.com: Other People's Children: Cultural Conflict in the Classroom, Updated Edition (9781595580740): Lisa Delpit, Herbert Kohl: Books
Amazon.com: "Why Are All The Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?": A Psychologist Explains the Development of Racial Identity (9780465083619): Beverly Daniel Tatum, Beverly Daniel Tatum: Books
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How do you think three little black kids in an otherwise white public school classroom feel when we parade around their differences and shove them in all the children's faces in the name of "celebrating diversity"?
Well, seeing as I was once a black child, I could tell you how
I felt. How did you feel as a black child in an otherwise white public school classroom when diversity was celebrated?
If we want to truly integrate people, we can't keep pointing out to our children HEY LOOK THIS IS A HUGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU! You're just singling them out and making them feel even more awkward and isolated, and you're subconsciously reinforcing the idea that race is a significant distinction. It's not, and we shouldn't be teaching children that it is.
You seem to be minimizing the effects of racism in the classroom to
feelings of "awkwardness" and "isolation".
I'm not telling you to ignore him when your kid comes home and asks why someone used a racial slur toward him; I'm just saying this overemphasis on CELEBRATING RACIAL DIVERSITY YAAAAYYYY!!!! is absurd and counterproductive. Progress here will be made, as you said, by slowly phasing out race as a criteria for judgment.
No, I didn't say that actually. I said there are two types of racism that I was addressing: institutional and personally mediated, and they both needed to be addressed. Further, that there were short term and long term changes that needed to take place, and your idea was only tackling one.
I don't see any
overemphasis on celebrating racial diversity. How are you quantifying
overemphasis?
When we focus on "celebrating racial diversity", we are making racism worse by perpetuating the idea that race should be a criteria for judgment.
Why, in a discussion about racism, is the celebration of diversity your focus?

I'm not even disputing your point, I'm just asking you why you think this point is so all important; as if racism stems from a reaction to minorities celebrating diversity.


Or are you saying that it's hopeless to tackle racism at the root, so we might as well start cutting down the flimsy branches?
"Ok Timmy now you're white and that's wonderful and great and you should be proud of it...but Jimmy over here is black and that's ALSO wonderful and great and he should be proud of that too!", then you're sending a very mixed message. Children will think, "Wait, if we're supposed to judge people based on their character and not on their race, then why do they keep making such a big deal and telling us to celebrate our differences?"
Well, seeing as I've
never heard any parents say the above to their children unless the subject was already at hand and relevant, I can't speak on it. If a parent makes comments like that at random, and out of context, then I would agree with you. But I don't know any parents who do that with their children.
What is the point of statements like these? First Disco ask if I had been a slave(like that was orginal), and now you with 1962. Seriously, humor me. I'm game.
So go ahead, tell your kid that he's different and special and wonderful for being black, but don't be surprised when he (and his peers) are unable to break down racial barriers between themselves because you've shoved the idea that OMG RACIAL DIVERSITY IS GREAT!!! down their throats from birth.
**sigh**
I don't need to tell my child that he is different, someone else will.
I don't need to tell my child that he is black or mixed, someone else will.
It is my job to tell him he is wonderful, in addition to and in combination with the fact that he is mixed and in most places in this country, recognizably "different".
And no, I will not take responsibility for the hatred of others as a result of my telling him such. Sorry.
You can and should explain some history if and when your child encounters racism in the real world..
I'm glad you approve.
but you should *NOT* create the impression that his race makes him better or worse or any different than anyone else. Being black isn't GREAT AND AWESOME AND WONDERFUL any more than being white is; it's just neutral and insignificant.
Again, on an individual scale this is true. On a societal scale, this is absolutely and entirely false. I refuse to perpetuate the myth in my own home! Agree to disagree.
I am not proud to be white, or male, or American, or blond, or any other random demographics. I'm proud of my accomplishments in life, not random bullshit characteristics over which I have no control. And I certainly hope that if I have children, I will teach them this sort of value system.

I'm with you here. I hope you're honest with your future children about the realities of their peers as well, and the realities of white privilege which they will likely benefit.
Yes, but every adult was at one point an impressionable child, and they had to get the idea that race is a big deal from somewhere--that being from adults at the time who imparted this idea upon them at a young age. So if adults stop raising their children to think that race is a big deal, RACE WILL CEASE TO BE A BIG DEAL.
We've been over this. We don't agree entirely. Cool.
I'm not arguing with you that race is still a big deal, but you've offered absolutely no argument for how to move toward race not being a big deal.
One of the main issues with combating racism in this country is that many whites have never, and still do not believe, that it is even a big deal. For this reason, many fight diversity programs, moves to integrate schools and proms, and see the high arrest of blacks as essentially normal and just.
There is a gigantic disparity in the way whites generally view racism, and the general way in which blacks view it and experience it. Ignorance of reality does not foster a racism free society. I believe in facing and acknowledging racism head on(it's what most minorities have to do as children anyway),
in addition to, what you're talking about. For hundreds of years, blacks, other people of color, and many whites, have been trying to unravel the complexity of racism. Let's not get arrogant and pretend like we know all the answers. The issue is complicated on many difficult levels. There isn't one solution.
At least I'm trying to do something about it!
On and off over the past 15 years, I have managed, organized, and participated in a number of different organizations whose aim was to combat racism, and illiteracy, in my community. So I'm trying to do something about it as well. We're on the same page. Thumbs up.
Oh, and here is a good article about perception disparities:
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