[Traditional Enneagram] Am I 9w1 or 4w5

[EmilyMIsty]

Hi, I am just wondering whether I am a type 9w1 or 4w5, I have took the test twice and got a 9, and tbh I would rather be a 9 but I relate to some 4 things I think.

I relate to some 9 things also, like I don't like conflict and most times will avoid it, however there was a girl in high school that was not nice and I stood up to her after like 3 years as I thought she was nice but she wasn't but the fact that I stood up to her, might say something. Moreover the last time an argument happened in real life my friend was having an argument with 2 other girls and I didn't say much and all I said was for them to stop and agree to disagree.

With identity, I don't feel unique, really, I mean who is, 7 billion people on the planet, I mean everyones a bit different but not that much, yet I don't feel that common but I don't mind if people are like me as then I find it relatable. I have never really, at least I don't think done something to be unique, however I do like mbti, which is connected to identity and I do want to know if i am a 9w1 or a 4w5. However when I am in public or with friends I never tell them much about my identity and some parts of indentity I like and others I don't, I am pretty confused how I feel about it, lots of mixed emotions tbh.

I am quite sensitive but not too much, like I do upset but only if I am scared I am something or have an illness or feeling a bit insecure, but that does not happen that often. I am not moody or dramatic, most times I feel okay or good, just the way I like it.

I used to be a people pleaser when I was younger and would always say yes to things, I am not as much like that now, still have my moments.

I tend to avoid emotions if I can, like if I know a way I can avoid, I will, which can be annoying as sometimes I should face it but I feel better when I don't. So what do you think I am

 

[Lia_kat]

1. How old are you?
2. It would help if you answer some questionnaires or go into more detail about yourself; what you've written so far is very vague.

 

[EmilyMIsty]

17 years old and questions like what as I can't really think of any.

 

[Lia_kat]

17 years old and questions like what as I can't really think of any.

Any personality questionnaire would be fine, but I found some good questions in this article: Getting to Know You Questions . Choose the ones you can answer honestly.

 

[Forever]

I'd say a 9 based on the information here.

 

[EmilyMIsty]

Okay I will
1.What was your upbringing like? pretty good, being a kid was awesome, just playing all day and chilling.
2.If you had to describe yourself in five words, what would they be? shy, nice, dreamer, laid back most of the time, obsessive
3. What accomplishment are you most proud of and why? I would say getting 5cs in gcse as its all I can think of tbh
4. If you weren’t working in the job you have now, what would you do? I am in college so I would say working at a place like Pgl or being a ski instructor or being a stagehand
5. What’s on your bucket list? be as happy as i can be, explore the world, fall in love, meet new people, meet my favourite actors
6.6. What is one of your best memories from childhood? Pgl as had so much fun \
7. If you could change something in the world, what would it be? so that everyone is treated equally and most the all everyone has the same amount of money
8. What makes you wildly happy? having fun times with friends
9. What would you most like to learn and why?well to learn how to do tricks on a skateboard like a kick flip and to play drums
10. What are your top fears? to get a horrible rare disease and to die or to do something bad
12. What music has most influenced you? Twenty one pilots because they are awesome
14. How would you describe unconditional love? loving someone no matter what
15. What are your top five personal values? kindness, loyal, friendship, happiness, fun

16. What goals do you have for the next five years? move out
17. When do you feel the most confident and why? when I am happy
21. What do you feel passionate about? Tv shows, music, actors
22. If you were an animal, what would you be? a panda because they are cool.
23. What really gets under your skin and makes you mad? mean people, lying for no good reason, attention seekers,
28. How do you handle anger? slamming doors, going on the internet, shouting at the person then going into another room, talking to someone else about it and music and tv
30. What will be your legacy? hopefully that i was nice and just a good guy.

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Thanks for answering

 

[Lia_kat]

You seem more like a 9 to me..

 

[EmilyMIsty]

Thanks, I prob am tbh.