I'm sorry, but it seems to me like you agreed with all the points that ESFJs and ENFJs have in common, but disagreed with all the "S" points of ESFJ. That, overall, doesn't point to an ESFJ, imo.
In your video your "vibe" reminded me of an ENFJ colleague/friend I worked with two last summers, and when I still didn't know much about MBTI I thought ESFJ was a good fit for that person. But after further analysis, the friend is DEFINITELY more abstract than concrete => ENFJ. Personally, the ESFJ "manipulation" doesn't work with me, because it's just too obvious. They explicitely show people what they think they should do, whereas ENFJs cunningly get people where they wanted to have them by encouraging them and making them think it is 1) their own choice, 2) the best choice ever. Which is exactly what the colleague does
I don't really get Babylon Candle's reasoning. 1w2 ENFJ makes too much sense, so LL can't be one?

I don't really get the logic. Personally, the ENFJs I've met were either 2s or 4s, and I think 2 makes way more sense for an ENFJ than 1. 1 makes the most sense for STJs, imo. ENFJ + 1 = ESTJ-ish ENFJ. Which is exactly what LL is, isn't she?