LightSun
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Can’t I find level headed Democrats, Republican and Independents that are level headed? Is walking across the aisle possible or is it mere hypocrisy?
For those from either party that succumb to the cognitive distortions of:
(1). Labeling, name calling and pejoratives or
(2). All or nothing thinking and generalizing
I am responding to a a post that is anti-trump. They use though only insults and put downs and nothing constructive.
I’ve found out postings like this accomplish nothing. They are passive aggressive at a bare minimum.
You’re only preaching to the choir. There is a saying, “For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.”
The above statement is not 100% true. If someone attacks another party but that second party is psychologically, emotionally and spiritually evolved and mature enough to not take it personally, then they will not respond in kind.
This is (2A). hate mongering. It is just as distasteful for all those Obama bashers. (3). It accomplishes nothing. (4). It is not mature. (5). It is not intelligent.
(6). It accomplishes nothing except preach to the choir.
(7). It is ineffectual speech.
There are members of the other party already who hate you. All you do is pour gasoline unto the fire.
Personally I look for either Republican or Democrat that tries to communicate in an adult and mature fashion. One who ardently seeks to walk across the aisle.
This requires: (8). an open mind, (9). tolerance for those of disparate beliefs and opinions, (10). respect and respectful dialogue in (11). communicating to somebody on the other side of the aisle that actually makes sense.
Without these ingredients in communication any progress is impossible. Just because someone is an ass, should not let you to talk and behave as an ass yourself. Then what’s the difference? How can you tell apart both warring parties?
P.S. I abhor Mr. Trump. He is anti -ethical to all I stand for. I have no idea of people can not be offended by the words that come out of his mouth.
He triggers in me great aversion. I do not let that trigger manifest into boorish and senseless attacks against him.
If I talk about him, I stick to objective facts. In my actions, I simply will not vote for him, simple and easy.” LightSun
For those from either party that succumb to the cognitive distortions of:
(1). Labeling, name calling and pejoratives or
(2). All or nothing thinking and generalizing
I am responding to a a post that is anti-trump. They use though only insults and put downs and nothing constructive.
I’ve found out postings like this accomplish nothing. They are passive aggressive at a bare minimum.
You’re only preaching to the choir. There is a saying, “For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.”
The above statement is not 100% true. If someone attacks another party but that second party is psychologically, emotionally and spiritually evolved and mature enough to not take it personally, then they will not respond in kind.
This is (2A). hate mongering. It is just as distasteful for all those Obama bashers. (3). It accomplishes nothing. (4). It is not mature. (5). It is not intelligent.
(6). It accomplishes nothing except preach to the choir.
(7). It is ineffectual speech.
There are members of the other party already who hate you. All you do is pour gasoline unto the fire.
Personally I look for either Republican or Democrat that tries to communicate in an adult and mature fashion. One who ardently seeks to walk across the aisle.
This requires: (8). an open mind, (9). tolerance for those of disparate beliefs and opinions, (10). respect and respectful dialogue in (11). communicating to somebody on the other side of the aisle that actually makes sense.
Without these ingredients in communication any progress is impossible. Just because someone is an ass, should not let you to talk and behave as an ass yourself. Then what’s the difference? How can you tell apart both warring parties?
P.S. I abhor Mr. Trump. He is anti -ethical to all I stand for. I have no idea of people can not be offended by the words that come out of his mouth.
He triggers in me great aversion. I do not let that trigger manifest into boorish and senseless attacks against him.
If I talk about him, I stick to objective facts. In my actions, I simply will not vote for him, simple and easy.” LightSun
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