HedgeHogPiggy
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- Jul 10, 2018
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
Hey everyone,
Im a new member but have been reading posts on here for years and would really appreciate some input as to what Im going through.
So to preface I have an internship over the summer in a new state and did not know anyone here. The internship has many other interns and all of them are from this area except one.
As an ENFP I feel like Im used to getting along with most people Im around. But these people are very very different from what Im used to. I can genuinely say I love everyone of the interns but at the same time I don't feel like Im super close with any of them yet.
Like most ENFPs I love deep conversations and I feel like here they arent super interested in it. On weekend one we went to one of the guys houses and i convinced them to drink and look up deep questions on the internet, and we all had a lot of fun. But like since then 85% of the time the guys are only talking about videos on the internet and video games.
Another issue I have is how disrespectful I feel they are towards my values. Im a Christian and Im totally ok with people having other world views but they say very often how stupid it is to believe what I believe and try to get me to change my mind.
Lastly, Im pretty sure theyre mostly joking but two of them talk about how stupid I am. I talk and joke around about the dumb things that I do but idk i just feel like it can be excessive at times.
Idk tho I just feel like I dont belong and today Im feeling really down about it.
Any NF support?
Im a new member but have been reading posts on here for years and would really appreciate some input as to what Im going through.
So to preface I have an internship over the summer in a new state and did not know anyone here. The internship has many other interns and all of them are from this area except one.
As an ENFP I feel like Im used to getting along with most people Im around. But these people are very very different from what Im used to. I can genuinely say I love everyone of the interns but at the same time I don't feel like Im super close with any of them yet.
Like most ENFPs I love deep conversations and I feel like here they arent super interested in it. On weekend one we went to one of the guys houses and i convinced them to drink and look up deep questions on the internet, and we all had a lot of fun. But like since then 85% of the time the guys are only talking about videos on the internet and video games.
Another issue I have is how disrespectful I feel they are towards my values. Im a Christian and Im totally ok with people having other world views but they say very often how stupid it is to believe what I believe and try to get me to change my mind.
Lastly, Im pretty sure theyre mostly joking but two of them talk about how stupid I am. I talk and joke around about the dumb things that I do but idk i just feel like it can be excessive at times.
Idk tho I just feel like I dont belong and today Im feeling really down about it.
Any NF support?