carriecaroline
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Hello,
Almost every time I take a myers briggs test I'm typed as ENFP, occasionally ENTP (with like one percent magin on T) and one time as ENFJ. The thing is, that I don't feel like an ENFP. I'm a bit new to Myers-Briggs, and would really want to find out which type I am. Eh, there's quite a lot to read but I will be eternally grateful if you read it and help me out!
- I'm always typed an extrovert but I really enjoy being by myself – reading, watching films, baking, cooking –, I don't feel very lonely when I'm alone. I enjoy my own company, but I also love hanging out with friends. Everything is much more fun when I'm around people, but I really need some alone time every now and then.
- Different from ENFP, I don't let my emotions show. I never cry at home, although I'm a teenage girl (17) living a rather turbulent life. When watching sad films, I'm the only one being stone faced whilst the rest of the people in the cinema cry like babies.
- I have no trouble with conflicts. Well, I don't like initiating them, but I'm very rational when being yelled at. I'm argumentative and factual, and my mum thinks I'm very cold dealing with conflicts. I always seem to find a reason and I almost never slam doors, yell at people or feel an irrational anger inside. Well, rarely.
- I'm good at taking initiative in social matters – I ask when friends can hangout, I try to find interesting conversation topics and I always want to make the other part feeling wanted. When two of my friends who don't know each other meet, I try to find something mutual to talk about.
- I'm a leader, definitely. All the way through kindergarten to... well, now, senior year in high school. When I speak, people automatically listen. I'm always in charge of the planning when there is a forthcoming event, I'm good at organising and seeing to each and everyone's need such as food allergies. When I plan, I really want to mak an elaborate plan. Not just wandering around, I want to visit as much as I can if I'm in a new city for example. I dislike just sitting down, I want to experience, be adventurous and curious!
- I really love speaking, publicly and to friends. I feel like I have a lot to say, but at the same time I always think about what I'm going to say next because I don't want to tell something boring/embarrassing that potentially could be offensive to anyone. I choose my words carefully. I speak fast as well.
- The ENFP is overrepresented among kids suffering from ADD. I have never had any problems concentrating or being still for a long time. I've always loved school, craved confirmation and praise from my teachers, and I've always been a model pupil with straight A's. I want to add that my parents have high expectations, and being an excellent student is nothing but standard in my family.
- I read a lot, and I like classic works and writers such as Goethe. I'm very interested in biographies and reportage books. North Korea, GULAG and slavery are some of my favourite topics. I love reading because of many reasons, one of them is symbolism. I love digging deeper and deeper into hidden meanings, symbols, words and references.
- I'm a firm believer in traditions, but I have great understanding for those who differ from my opinions. I often try to play with thoughts and ideas to understand them better, to find counter arguments and to sometimes switch sides.
- I'm diplomatic and I hate hearing conflicts between friends/relatives/parents. I always know how to make the awkward, tense feeling go away though, by joking or talking about something completely different yet interesting.
- I don't say â€I love youâ€, â€you mean a lot to meâ€, â€you're such a good friendâ€. Never. Not to my parents, not to my friends, no one. Well, maybe when my friends have birthdays and it's time to write something meaningful on their Facebook wall.
- I adapt extremely easily to the people that I hang out with. If they are â€fuzzy†and joke around all the time, I let go of my controlling side and tag along. The same with every kind of person. I know exactly what's appropriate in every single situation – topics to discuss, what to wear, how to act.
- I have trouble being honest and direct. When people ask me if I'm upset/angry/sad after something has happened/someone said something offensive, I reject it but feel totally otherwise.
- I don't easily laugh. I'm a very positive and optimistic person, but it's rather hard to amuse me.
- When I'm sad, I'm either a total bitch (not often) or (more likely) I become very "innocent" and don't discuss the matter further, I'm just really sad and cry and cry and cry and ask for forgiveness.
- I daydream a lot and think about the future, the possibilities and what may come.
- I'm a go getter and differing from ENFP, I often finish what I started. If I've decided to rearrange the book shelves it will be done. Then and there, and I work fast. I often postpone shallow things like painting my nails and washing my hair.
- I'm a master at procrastinating school work, but the results are always great.
- I'm a great at writing to-do lists but my work flow is really defined by energy spikes.
- I work hard and play hard, and I'm a nothing or all in-kind of person.
- It's easy to understand abstract matters for me. I've always had a thing for patterns in school, like in maths. I'm good at tutoring, I always seem to find new ways to make my student understand the math problem/whatever it is.
- I don't allow myself to be sad. I think and think and think until it all makes sense and I do this methodically, rationally and logically.
- When I by mistake erase an important post on my friend's Facebook or miss the buss, I only shrug my shoulders and think â€So what, I just have to wait/redo itâ€.
- We have a lot of deadlines in school, and I always follow them, but I hand in my work as late as possible, well maybe 2-3 hours before midnight.
- I love mingling and meeting new people.
- I don't know if this has any impact but I rarely listen to an entire song, I push the forward l button like 1:30 minutes in, and I never see a whole movie in one sitting when it's on my own terms.
- I'm described as charming and agreeable. I don't like telling people what to do in a harsh way, and I'm good at solving conflicts between others.
- Politics interest me and I always act nicely when people don't think like me. I'm good at arguing but I never have trouble saying â€That I didn't know ofâ€, â€I agree with you on this oneâ€, â€You are right†or â€my badâ€.
- I often feel the urge to talk to the people that I'm standing in line with. I live in a country (Sweden) where being anti-social in public is a norm by the way.
- I'm very open-minded and I have little prejudice. I always try to understand how the other person thinks/feels like, I think that you need to walk in a man's shoes before you ought to judge him.
- It's easy for my thoughts to wander. If I see something while hearing something boring at the same time, I begin looking at it and stop listening. Quite irritating actually.
- I have no trouble improvising speeches or even what I'm going to say. I earlier wrote that I like being prepared, I go through my thoughts that I will produce into words, but it's easy for me to improvise an opinion, a thought or really anything if I'm caught off-guard. I'm going to contradict myself once again: I often have no idea what I'm going to say until I start speaking. Well, it depends on the situation.
- I don't feel the urge to talk just to talk. I'm rather quiet than saying something really stupid. If the topic interests me though, I'm more than willing to speak.
- I hate it when people don't respond if they can meet up or not. I crave admiration, affirmation and compliments from my surroundings. I have major trouble realising that some people dislike me.
- I have high standards and high expectations on myself but also on others. But I don't reject friends, I find it hard to do so. Friends often take me for granted.
- Just like ENFP, I hate chatting about the weather, gossip and other usual small talk topics. I want to dig deeper, I want to learn something about the person I'm talking to.
- I have trouble keeping a journal, even though I have a lot of thoughts and really would need a place to sort things out.
- I care alot about what others think but I have no trouble having my own style, raising my hand when no one else does or being the first person to talk to a lonely person. I always try to be considerate and modest.
- There's this side of me that is a total bitch, who can say these really horrible things about others. I can be very judgemental and bitchy, but that is when in a bad mood.
- I'm a person bursting with energy, often trying to drag those with me who aren't as full of â€life†as I am.
- I crave popularity, and I'm rather self-conscious.
- I'm not a jealous person, except when it comes to love. But concerning scholarships, rewards, competitions and so on, I'm only happy for others' sake.
Well... If you read it all, now I am eternally grateful. Have my first-born, be my bff, make me follow you on tumblr, I don't know but just thanxxxxx and lots of love
Almost every time I take a myers briggs test I'm typed as ENFP, occasionally ENTP (with like one percent magin on T) and one time as ENFJ. The thing is, that I don't feel like an ENFP. I'm a bit new to Myers-Briggs, and would really want to find out which type I am. Eh, there's quite a lot to read but I will be eternally grateful if you read it and help me out!
- I'm always typed an extrovert but I really enjoy being by myself – reading, watching films, baking, cooking –, I don't feel very lonely when I'm alone. I enjoy my own company, but I also love hanging out with friends. Everything is much more fun when I'm around people, but I really need some alone time every now and then.
- Different from ENFP, I don't let my emotions show. I never cry at home, although I'm a teenage girl (17) living a rather turbulent life. When watching sad films, I'm the only one being stone faced whilst the rest of the people in the cinema cry like babies.
- I have no trouble with conflicts. Well, I don't like initiating them, but I'm very rational when being yelled at. I'm argumentative and factual, and my mum thinks I'm very cold dealing with conflicts. I always seem to find a reason and I almost never slam doors, yell at people or feel an irrational anger inside. Well, rarely.
- I'm good at taking initiative in social matters – I ask when friends can hangout, I try to find interesting conversation topics and I always want to make the other part feeling wanted. When two of my friends who don't know each other meet, I try to find something mutual to talk about.
- I'm a leader, definitely. All the way through kindergarten to... well, now, senior year in high school. When I speak, people automatically listen. I'm always in charge of the planning when there is a forthcoming event, I'm good at organising and seeing to each and everyone's need such as food allergies. When I plan, I really want to mak an elaborate plan. Not just wandering around, I want to visit as much as I can if I'm in a new city for example. I dislike just sitting down, I want to experience, be adventurous and curious!
- I really love speaking, publicly and to friends. I feel like I have a lot to say, but at the same time I always think about what I'm going to say next because I don't want to tell something boring/embarrassing that potentially could be offensive to anyone. I choose my words carefully. I speak fast as well.
- The ENFP is overrepresented among kids suffering from ADD. I have never had any problems concentrating or being still for a long time. I've always loved school, craved confirmation and praise from my teachers, and I've always been a model pupil with straight A's. I want to add that my parents have high expectations, and being an excellent student is nothing but standard in my family.
- I read a lot, and I like classic works and writers such as Goethe. I'm very interested in biographies and reportage books. North Korea, GULAG and slavery are some of my favourite topics. I love reading because of many reasons, one of them is symbolism. I love digging deeper and deeper into hidden meanings, symbols, words and references.
- I'm a firm believer in traditions, but I have great understanding for those who differ from my opinions. I often try to play with thoughts and ideas to understand them better, to find counter arguments and to sometimes switch sides.
- I'm diplomatic and I hate hearing conflicts between friends/relatives/parents. I always know how to make the awkward, tense feeling go away though, by joking or talking about something completely different yet interesting.
- I don't say â€I love youâ€, â€you mean a lot to meâ€, â€you're such a good friendâ€. Never. Not to my parents, not to my friends, no one. Well, maybe when my friends have birthdays and it's time to write something meaningful on their Facebook wall.
- I adapt extremely easily to the people that I hang out with. If they are â€fuzzy†and joke around all the time, I let go of my controlling side and tag along. The same with every kind of person. I know exactly what's appropriate in every single situation – topics to discuss, what to wear, how to act.
- I have trouble being honest and direct. When people ask me if I'm upset/angry/sad after something has happened/someone said something offensive, I reject it but feel totally otherwise.
- I don't easily laugh. I'm a very positive and optimistic person, but it's rather hard to amuse me.
- When I'm sad, I'm either a total bitch (not often) or (more likely) I become very "innocent" and don't discuss the matter further, I'm just really sad and cry and cry and cry and ask for forgiveness.
- I daydream a lot and think about the future, the possibilities and what may come.
- I'm a go getter and differing from ENFP, I often finish what I started. If I've decided to rearrange the book shelves it will be done. Then and there, and I work fast. I often postpone shallow things like painting my nails and washing my hair.
- I'm a master at procrastinating school work, but the results are always great.
- I'm a great at writing to-do lists but my work flow is really defined by energy spikes.
- I work hard and play hard, and I'm a nothing or all in-kind of person.
- It's easy to understand abstract matters for me. I've always had a thing for patterns in school, like in maths. I'm good at tutoring, I always seem to find new ways to make my student understand the math problem/whatever it is.
- I don't allow myself to be sad. I think and think and think until it all makes sense and I do this methodically, rationally and logically.
- When I by mistake erase an important post on my friend's Facebook or miss the buss, I only shrug my shoulders and think â€So what, I just have to wait/redo itâ€.
- We have a lot of deadlines in school, and I always follow them, but I hand in my work as late as possible, well maybe 2-3 hours before midnight.
- I love mingling and meeting new people.
- I don't know if this has any impact but I rarely listen to an entire song, I push the forward l button like 1:30 minutes in, and I never see a whole movie in one sitting when it's on my own terms.
- I'm described as charming and agreeable. I don't like telling people what to do in a harsh way, and I'm good at solving conflicts between others.
- Politics interest me and I always act nicely when people don't think like me. I'm good at arguing but I never have trouble saying â€That I didn't know ofâ€, â€I agree with you on this oneâ€, â€You are right†or â€my badâ€.
- I often feel the urge to talk to the people that I'm standing in line with. I live in a country (Sweden) where being anti-social in public is a norm by the way.
- I'm very open-minded and I have little prejudice. I always try to understand how the other person thinks/feels like, I think that you need to walk in a man's shoes before you ought to judge him.
- It's easy for my thoughts to wander. If I see something while hearing something boring at the same time, I begin looking at it and stop listening. Quite irritating actually.
- I have no trouble improvising speeches or even what I'm going to say. I earlier wrote that I like being prepared, I go through my thoughts that I will produce into words, but it's easy for me to improvise an opinion, a thought or really anything if I'm caught off-guard. I'm going to contradict myself once again: I often have no idea what I'm going to say until I start speaking. Well, it depends on the situation.
- I don't feel the urge to talk just to talk. I'm rather quiet than saying something really stupid. If the topic interests me though, I'm more than willing to speak.
- I hate it when people don't respond if they can meet up or not. I crave admiration, affirmation and compliments from my surroundings. I have major trouble realising that some people dislike me.
- I have high standards and high expectations on myself but also on others. But I don't reject friends, I find it hard to do so. Friends often take me for granted.
- Just like ENFP, I hate chatting about the weather, gossip and other usual small talk topics. I want to dig deeper, I want to learn something about the person I'm talking to.
- I have trouble keeping a journal, even though I have a lot of thoughts and really would need a place to sort things out.
- I care alot about what others think but I have no trouble having my own style, raising my hand when no one else does or being the first person to talk to a lonely person. I always try to be considerate and modest.
- There's this side of me that is a total bitch, who can say these really horrible things about others. I can be very judgemental and bitchy, but that is when in a bad mood.
- I'm a person bursting with energy, often trying to drag those with me who aren't as full of â€life†as I am.
- I crave popularity, and I'm rather self-conscious.
- I'm not a jealous person, except when it comes to love. But concerning scholarships, rewards, competitions and so on, I'm only happy for others' sake.
Well... If you read it all, now I am eternally grateful. Have my first-born, be my bff, make me follow you on tumblr, I don't know but just thanxxxxx and lots of love
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