proteanmix
Plumage and Moult
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I just don't like being self-conscious and presenting a front all the time. I would rather be my usual and if we get along, we get along.
It's not fronting. Sometimes being you (not you you) can be like throwing cold water in someones face. I prefer frogs in boiling water.
If you're just out there, you give people no period of adjustment. And there are often people would will like you just fine if you just give them time to warm up to you. But there are also people who will like you if you tell them you like anal plugs as well within the first three hours of knowing them. Perform an audience analysis.